Hey guys, I'm an AFC who really wants to get better at the game (because I suck, am introverted and have zero club game), but can't really seem to get into the whole PUA-thing. I often read up on it, just to forget about it later again and because of that I don't improve at all over the long term.

So I haven't done anything PUA-related for a long time. I have this FWB SPAM, so I haven't felt that big of an urge to go sarging the last few months, and my game has become rusty as shit. My approach anxiety has increased, I simply do NOT know what to say, what to talk about, how to act/behave, and (my biggest problem) I don't know how to build up the conversation to any kind of a Close.

Here's my question to you: Can you please help me set up some kind of a plan of approach (if that's what you call it). Just some kind of a general script of what someone needs to say and do and how to build up to that (k/f/tel-)close. (Note: I'm Dutch, so literal quotes or plays on words won't be that useful).
Okay I'll give it a shot, please tell me what you think about it:

-Opener: I always say something casual and simple like "Hey how are you doing?" Unless I can think of something better at the moment.
-Ask some general info about them: "What do you study?/Where do you work?/ Where are you from?" - I always feel like I get way too boring here. There's nothing sexual or intimate about this kind of a conversation, but I don't know what else to talk about?
-Getting more intimate: Throwing in some kino, some jokes/negs, that kind of stuff. I REALLY suck at this part, so to be honest, the only time when I close is when the girl is giving very obvious hints on wanting to be kissed so that I can just go in. But when we're just having a normal conversation I have NO idea what to do and how to get more intimate with her. Just no idea at all. While my friends are making out with girls left and right, I'm just standing there freaking talking to her, not knowing how to go further.
-The close.

I would appreciate it so much if you could help me with this problem.
To clarify and summarize: I don't know how to build up a conversation towards an eventual close. I just keep talking about trivial stupid stuff and eventually run out of things to say.

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Go out more, period. Such at it if you have to, but go out, often. Try shit. Your own fun and development are paramount. I such too, but I know the path to good.

Thanks for the tip. Yeah I know experience is the most important factor here. But I just like to have some kind of reference point, you know? Just to have some general set-up, a game plan. So I know what to do in what situation:
Example:
We exchange info. Then she gives out obvious IOIs --> I start focusing on kino a little more and maybe change the subject to something less boring.--> More IOIs --> Close

Something like that.

And when she doesn't give out too many IOIs, how to respond then? Give a time-restraint and go some place else to come back later? Or just go to another girl?
Come on, you more experienced guys MUST have some kind of game plan when you go sarging.

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"Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude."