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So lately I have been having considerable success with girls, but I seem to keep running into a problem that holds me back: I dont believe girls are into me. Later, while I am going over things, I realize yea this girl or that girl was into me, but at the moment I either didnt recognize it because I felt like I still had to game the girl, or I did recognize it but I just couldnt believe she actually liked me. If I could realize the girl actually likes me when the moment arrives, I could capitalize on it. I think its an inner game problem, I dont feel worthy enough to feel like her attraction to me is reality in the moment it actually is reality. Any advice?
Hey Chappelle,
The problem you are facing is one most people face at some point or another what I can tell you for sure is that the problem isnt how attractive or unattractive you are, the problem is what you believe to be true about yourself.
The biggest secret to becoming attractive to women is becoming attractive to yourself. It is a self-image problem and it needs to be corrected.
I highly recommend you get a copy of the book PsycoCybernetics by Maxwell Maltz. Maltz was a plastic surgeon who during his career noticed that plastic surgery didnt always make people feel more attractive and that alot of attractive people who didnt need surgery felt that they should have it.
This got him interested in the self image and how to change it. It is an amazing book that will help you not only with your woman problems but with everything in life.
You dont feel women are attracted to you because you dont really feel you are worth attracting them and this can easily be changed by imagining yourself the way you want to be with practice you can transform yourself image, gain confidence and passion for life which means you will automatically attract everyone to want to be around you because passion and confidence are magnetic.