I've speed readed a few PUA books and get the concepts/basics. I've also not had problems picking up girls. What I have problems with is picking up the girls I'm interested in and making it a quick affair rather than having them want a relationship. (((What makes the difference? I'm looking for strategies that have been tested with experience))) Everyone knows the saying time is money... So ROI is good even in your romantic/hook-up life.

I live in Washington Dc which is a very diverse city compared to other cities in the U.S. and I've Observed that different strategies work better for different types of girls. For example, American women((big generalization)) don't like to be approached in the same way that I would approach women from south west Europe.

You've gotta be the type of guy that has one night stands... Right now, girls see you as a relationship guy.

Be the guy who they fuck and then go back to their boyfriends if thats the guy you wanna be.

You probably just aren't aggressively pursuing sex enough and early enough. I almost always try to bring a girl back to my place on the first date or first meeting. If they like you but aren't ready they will just say no but it won't ruin your chances to see them again later. Once you realize that, you'll see that all you have to do to get a lot of lays it to just go for it!

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I've always tried to lead a girl to sex subtlety with lets check out another place....I think my friends who are great at PUA would agree I'm not aggressive enough but if you are aggressive it sometimes makes you look desperate or lowers your value...


the one thing I've noticed though if you use innuendos or you make a girl think that's exactly all you're looking for then it completely turns her off. thus the rap lyrics "you gota sweet talk a hoe". unless the girl is really intoxicated or low class.

^(second comment))It's not like I'm wanting only one night stands/flings... I care for meaningful relationships. but if your busy with many things in your life then sometimes you have to do what works with time.

Yeah we all have those picky friends who only go for 10's that always seem to be these uber players when nobody is around them to see it..

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(1) -- There is a different between NEEDY and DESPERATE vs being AGGRESSIVE.
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