I met this girl at this school event/social type thing a few weeks back and I was super smooth and cool (I was actually surprised at how well I played it.) Then after words we went out to eat on a super casual pizza date . She seemed into me, but later her mother calls to pick her up or something and she has to go (she seemed annoyed with her mom on the phone- I couldn't understand what she was saying because she was speaking a different language to her mother, but she seemed pissed at her.) So before she leaves I get her number and everything seems okay.

Then later (I think the next week or sometime around there) I hit her up by text, and ask her if she wants to do something. We go out for a short time, but later the same thing happens with her mother (coincidence?)

Anyway, last time I saw her I asked her out and she had work (but earlier she said she didn't have work, so she was most likely lying.)

The facts:
1. I used kino (on the arms or upper back- but fairly casual since all three times I saw her were casual and it wasn't just us alone)
2. I used eye contact (but not to a creepy extent)
3. I wouldn't say she's out of my league. Actually I'd say I'm around a 7 (honestly) and her a 6 imo, and even so I was super confident so it shouldn't even matter if she was a 8/10 or 9/10.
4. Her mothers phone call may have been fake- what are the odds of her mother asking her to leave early both times we went out? (the second time was fairly early too)
5. The work thing - this one really makes me think she was lying just to avoid dating me (I can't see why though, I was a pretty good conversationalist, used kino, etc)
6. Only thing I can probably see that was my fault is cracking a joke about the thug life when she mentioned that she lived in the hood (but I gave her a playful soft kino touch [punch-im not sure about the punch though but I know it was playful and soft kino.) So that shouldn't have been a problem.
7. Actually theres one more thing I didn't do- text her enough. I'm not to into texting anyway and I don't want to seem needy. Also, its not like she texted me a lot either.
8. Also, the first time I met her at the school thing she might've saw with me a friend or two that were girls so their was probably preselection too. So I really can't see why she wouldn't like me.

So wth, why did she say no? I really don't think she had work.

Is it too much to eventually get a girlfriend??

Just playing hard to get.

Stop over thinking this shit. It's not a big deal. You're like what... 16? Still in school, right? Stop being so paranoid about this.

1. She went out with you twice, she confirmed her interest to see you a second time.
2. She's probably young and her mother is protective which is why she calls her and insists on picking her up.
3. So what if she lied about working? Maybe she has something embarrassing to take care of and can't meet up when you wanted to or she's just playing hard to get.

Either way, don't think too much into it. If she comes or goes there's plenty more out there and you said yourself she's a 6.

Hit her up, ask her to come out and then close her. If she comes out for a third "date" just to see you, some random guy she hardly knows(!!!), then I can tell you you're at least going to be able to kiss this girl if you make the move.

this goes against everything you have been told or think is normal, but my advice would be just go a few days completely ignoring her. She will start trying to figure out what the hell is wrong and how SHE can get YOUR attention back on her. Girls hate when that happens and it makes them horny trying to figure out how to "get you back" or get your attention back.

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I have no idea what you guys talked about and what the mood was like, but is there any chance she didn't have fun? It could be that simple.

Avoiding to call or text a girl for a while is a sign of disinterest, which can make her loose interest as well. If you had a good date the first time, I would suggest texting her immediately afterwards, "it was fun, let's do it again sometime, I'll call you".

But since you have been on a second date already, I would suggest you follow MrAlphaMale's comment, and ignore her for quite some time. Maybe weeks. By ignoring someone you "reset the game plan", so to speak.