This is really 2 separate questions.

what if you have just started talking to a girl and she is friendly, but you sense a "lesbian vibe" from her? do you ask her "are you gay or straight?" or do you just act like she is straight unless you are told otherwise?

the other question: if she says she is a lesbian, how can I ask her to let me watch? That is one of my biggest fantasies.

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Do not ask her if shes a lesbian unless your guys are really close friends. If your looking to date/sex this girl then just move forward with your agenda assuming shes straight.

If she IS a lesbo then hang out with her ...become close friends with her, tell her your secrets and feeling on life as friends, let her tell you her secrets and feelings and become close friends. THEN once you guys are great buds bring up the fact that you think it would be awesome to watch her kiss another girl. If shes cool with that then keep pushing it forward until shes naked with another girl.

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Thanks so much, this is great.

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Wow that is so much better advice than what I would do. I typically just take it out of my pants and see what she does.