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Ok, I got this really sweet HB8 girl who's added me to myspace - I met her one night but didn't complete the number close (I basically said no, I don't have my phone and fucked it up... don't ask why) but it seems like it built attraction as she must've searched for me, especially as there's no way she could guess the spelling of my name. Anyway.
I plan to say something along the lines of "I have some free time on friday, plan on going shoppin, are you up for it?"
Is that the best way of wording it? I'm trying to make it seem like I'm busy (friday = free time), and I'm going regardless (don't need her, not needy) but I also invite her along.
Also, she's from the US and studying in the UK for a few months. If she comes along, she'll probably be spending £15/$30 just for the transport, another £8/$15 for food and then I'm not sure if she'll spend much on clothes. When we last spoke, we were discussing areas/money/social class, and she mentioned she saved every last penny to stay on this trip. So should I pay for her transport and food? (note: we'll be getting a train so we'll be buying the tickets together, so it won't be like I'll be giving her money in her hand or anything) Should I buy her anything if I feel like it? She's a nice girl, not the gold digger type, but still. There's a lot wrong with paying for things for a girl - what do you guys think I should do?
plan on going shoppin, are you up for it?"
Dude be careful thats not alpha male, why are you asking her? don' t ask her dude! say something like ' Im going shopping this friday, i need a sidekick, ive chosen you! you to be my most trusty one! than go into routine '.
Is that the best way of wording it?
I've had to cancel some plans for this Friday, but i need some time off, im sick of constantly being the center of attention and getting people to look up to me! so ill be heading to this amazing place where i always relax, and get some coffeee mmm, so hows the weather? (eventually invite her after you talk up the place).
Also, she's from the US and studying in the UK for a few months. If she comes along, she'll probably be spending £15/$30 just for the transport, another £8/$15 for food and then I'm not sure if she'll spend much on clothes. When we last spoke, we were discussing areas/money/social class, and she mentioned she saved every last penny to stay on this trip. Dude don't talk to a girl on those level, its too much, keep it very simple and playfull, your worth whatever shes paying, whats this bullshit! get her to move her ass down there pronto, your a busy man!
note: we'll be getting a train so we'll be buying the tickets together, so it won't be like I'll be giving her money in her hand or anything) Should I buy her anything if I feel like it? She's a nice girl, not the gold digger type, but still. There's a lot wrong with paying for things for a girl - what do you guys think I should do?
Ask her if she has enough money for the ticket, if she says yes, than don't pay. Pay for some food, but put a limit on her. Like when i go out i buy a girl ice cream thats like bux and thats her limit! enough to not make me seem 'cheap'.
Just some thoughts
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