This girl is perfect girlfriend material. But she is flaky...it seems the less i try to chase her, the more she wants to be around me. If i ask to hang out with her she tells me she is busy, but if I playfully tell her where i am she shows up. We have kissed but i can't seem to escalate past that.

She has a boyfriend but from what i can see its just someone there to keep her occupied. I WANT this girl so bad but I can't seem to escalate to more than just hanging out and being friends. I'm half in the friend zone half being in and feels like i'm stuck in limbo.

there are other girls in my life but this one dominates my thoughts. do i keep being distant and getting her to follow me or be more upfront?

You need to stop chasing and start building some sexual tension and romantic tension in a playful and non-attached manner!

Start off by roleplaying some conspiracy stuff and make a bunch of "secrets" with her.

sexual tension is built but i feel i come off a bit needy when i'm around her.i can avoid texting her for days at a time, but when we are together i go for slight escalation and kino. she always accepts. yet she won't allow it to pass beyond that. i've tried breaking down LMR but it never works with her.

about 2 weeks ago she stopped accepting invitations to my place, which is bad, and stopped accepting invitations to hang out. but if i say 'i'm at 'insert club name here' having fun' she magically shows up. its so confusing...is she playing me?

we actually have a little thing where we are talking about opening up a restaraunt in the future, (one of my personal goals before we brought it up) and my life is a little out of whack SPAM but is coming together as of recently. could she just be waiting to see if i'm serious about getting my shit together?

Stick to what's working. Don't chase... She seems to love chasing you.

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