Im new to the game just iut of 5 year relation ship and was never in the game before i met my girl cuz i met her young !!! So i go up to my buddys friend christina and i throw out compliments out the ass and be very nice !! The. She txts my buddy 2 days later saying i need a different approach at flirting because all my over complimenting makes me come off as fake ! Soo how the fuck do you flirt with out compliments this is rediculous. Help needed beed pussy !!!!

Welcome to the community. First of all, names are not necessary on the forums. Second, you answered your own question on how to improve.
Flirting is simply a playful banter that allows you to build up sexual tension. Over complementing is one of the quickest ways to destroy that tension.
Look into push-pull techniques and that will give you a good start.

Al

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Flirting is not just throwing compliments out there like it is nothing. She said it herself you sounded fake. If you give a compliment you should mean it and not be giving them out all the time or they will lose their value. Flirting is not complimenting along. It also has to do with eye-contact, tone, and touching.

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Remember the old adage: 80% of communication is body language, 15% the tone and only 5% the actual words (that said, you've already learned not to go throwing about worthless compliments)

neg+tease+kino= flirt

tease+kino+compliment=flirt

kino+talkig=flirt

kino+tease=flirt

kino escalation is the key thing in flirting. How to get there that's something else.

Take it step by stept. First learn how to talk, how to move around a room and around a girl.
Maker her senses to go nuts:
1. visual - great outfit, great haircut... make yourself to look as good as possible
2. hearing - calibrate your voice. Speak loud and clear. Whisper something in her ear, that's a very nice feeling for you ear and it's also kind of a flirt
3. smelling - you MUST smell nice!!! Shower, pick a nice parfume and fresh new clothes
4. feeling/touching - she may touch you must be trimmed and that takes me to visual all over again
5. tasting - you mouth shouldn't smell in case she may be kissing you so take good care of that. Clean your teeth and your tongue.

After you do all this you can go flirting because you make her enjoy everything about you.

Asking how to flirt is like asking how do you breath
It comes naturally to everyone but overthinking it and
it starts becoming harder then it should be. Don't get
too caught up in her being a beautiful woman. If your
guy friend has a new pair of shoes you don't stare and
give him 10 compliments about how cool they look. Keep
a hakuna matata attitude and it will take you farther, keep
you relaxed and all of a sudden all the right words to make
her smile will start coming on their own..good luck.

STIMULATING CONVERSATION!

Most women instantly respond to this kind of conversation while men are lost in the sauce… a lot of men don’t even realize when they initiate this conversation and lose out on an opportunity.
So what does teasing do? Think of it… if you tease a woman you’re showing her that you are extremely confident. You are also telling her that you could care less what she thinks about you… which is extremely attractive to a woman. In fact displaying this confidence would make it impossible to be placed in the friend zone. Even if you end up as “friends” for whatever reason (maybe she has a boyfriend)… you will always be entering her mind and secretly she’ll think of you more than just a friend, just because you have to balls to tease her. She may even have sex dreams about you.
Now there’s a right way to tease her and a wrong way to tease her (also known as “negging”). Many men get this confused thinking teasing is putting a woman down and hurting them. I’ve seen many misguided men use distasteful comments on a woman’s weight or looks…. This is ABOLSUTELY not what you want to do in order to create attraction.
The proper way to tease a woman is to act ridiculous… like it’s obvious that you’re only teasing her. You could act snobby and say “I would date you but you’re too tall/short for me”. Or you could comment on her smile “you have a cute smile… but I think you’re up to something, stay away from me”. Keep in mind you’re supposed to be having fun with this and saying it in a way that you are obviously joking. You don’t want to comment on anything she’s probably insecure about like her weight.
Now there are exceptions… if my girl’s eating cookies I call her a fatass, but she’s also 125 pounds, I know she’s not insecure about her weight and she’s one of those women where it’s impossible for her to get fat. I probably wouldn’t recommend calling a girl you just met a “fat ass” though!
Other ways you can tease a girl is acting like you’re opening the door for her like a nice gesture…. But right before she’s about to walk in shut it on her and hold the door shut while smiling at her. This will probably make her want to hit you but kiss you at the same time…..
The funny thing about flirting is you revert back to the same kind of teasing when you were little children… women still like being teased! Just remember don’t try to be insulting… the idea is to make her smile and laugh.

Confident Body Language
Did you know that body language is 80% of our communication? So if you’re saying the exact right things to a girl but you look like an unconfident turd sack then she’ll still probably won’t be interested in you. This is very important.
In order to appear confident you need to have good posture… no slouching down, keep your shoulders high! You also want to make eye contact with her to show her you’re an alpha-male. While in a conversation with her you should hold eye contact until she breaks eye contact, this shows that you’re the dominant one in the conversation. You at least want to hold 4 seconds of eye contact before breaking away… but I would still stick to holding eye contact until she breaks away first.
Another way to show confidence in a slight smile. Women want to see your teeth and they love a man with a good smile. Plus it will make her feel more comfortable. Just don’t over-do it and try to refrain from having an evil over-the top smile. I’m told that I have a Joker Smile… so I have to tone it down a bit when I talk to a woman lol…


Playful Contact
The best part of flirting is when you have playful contact. Remember I told you it’s like elementary school? Believe it or not these childish techniques carry on into the adult world.
This means poking her with a pen, lightly pinching her, mirroring her every move and don’t let her pass you, playing footsies, chasing each other, lightly shoving her, touching her arms or shoulders. If you’re really building tension she maybe punch you in the arm in a playful way. It may sound odd but when a girl does this to me I know I have her, I know she’s thinking about me! You want to make her want to slap and kiss you at the same time.
You never want to over-do it and you want to give her just enough to have her always wanting more. That’s what flirting/teasing is about… giving her just enough and take a step back. Maybe you’ll give her a compliment and then flip it on her and tease her. Make every conversation with her unpredictable…. Keep her on the edge of her seat!

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Not to me. I don't overthink; most of the time I just can't think of anything to naturally say/do that would count as flirting.

that's because you don't know how to converse. You might be nervous or try to hard to say something. In a way you might be over-thinking everything.

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If anything I'm underthinking. Neurons may need some reworking up there.

To flirt successfully you can't just run your mouth and hope for the best. Practice observing and reading other the other person.

Listen to what she is saying and allow your mind to absorb the story and fill in the details. Nervous energy can rob you of your ability to truly connect with the other person. Keep it in check.

Practice playing with words and double meanings. Practice story telling.

Flirting is not something you born with, but something that can be cultivated from practice and interaction.

Al.