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PostPosted: Sat Nov 09, 2013 7:01 pm 
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Hi guys.

I met this girl approaching on daygame, we had an instant date for 15 mins and set things up to hang out on weekend. Things were fine until she ditched me with an excuse and since then she didn't talk to me.
So I waited for a few days, sent a text and no answer. I called once and no answer.

I was about to forget her and move on but last week I wrote a post about this girl when she ditched me and a guy said that she was shit testing me to see how persistent I could be and that I should give up after a month of trying.

So I listened to him and I sent one last message saying something like, "Hey, ignoring me? Lame. I see that you don't want talk to me anymore. It was a pleasure talking to you especially the day we had this coffee etc etc."

Then she immediately answered me saying something like. "Ignoring? You know too little about me to judge like that. I've had so much work to do and I've been really busy. I didn't want to let you down etc etc."

So she was basically saying that she's been really busy and was sorry to say that she couldn't hang out so she wouldn't answer my texts. Bullshit.
So we chatted a bit and I asked her to hang out tomorrow and she's saying she's not sure as she has a lot of things to do.

CONCLUSION:
We've talked today about this and I said, "alright, let's see how you get along with your work. I'll call you later at night."
I called her and she didn't answer but I know she's using the phone all the time to use SPAM. So I don't know what to do now. I'm not going to call her again, that's too AFC.
I don't know if I should ignore her for ever until she texts me or send another last text today or something.
Please any comments?

Thanks for reading.


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PostPosted: Sat Nov 09, 2013 9:22 pm 
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She's not interested. Sack it off!


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PostPosted: Sun Nov 10, 2013 6:44 am 
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Going to respond to your question as I read it.
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I met this girl approaching on daygame, we had an instant date for 15 mins and set things up to hang out on weekend. Things were fine until she ditched me with an excuse and since then she didn't talk to me.
So I waited for a few days, sent a text and no answer. I called once and no answer.
first indicator of no interest and lack of disrespect
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I was about to forget her and move on but last week I wrote a post about this girl when she ditched me and a guy said that she was shit testing me to see how persistent I could be and that I should give up after a month of trying.
a month is too long, you usually know if she's into you or not by the 2nd or 3rd interaction (email, text, phonecall, in person, whatever)
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So I listened to him and I sent one last message saying something like, "Hey, ignoring me? Lame. I see that you don't want talk to me anymore. It was a pleasure talking to you especially the day we had this coffee etc etc."
that message is a bit needy... doesn't sound as playful as you think it may come off, had you said it on the phone rather than a message the tone would indicate playfulness and not neediness. careful with texts
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Then she immediately answered me saying something like. "Ignoring? You know too little about me to judge like that. I've had so much work to do and I've been really busy. I didn't want to let you down etc etc."
Lol see what I mean, didn't even read this and already said how it'd be interpreted.
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So she was basically saying that she's been really busy and was sorry to say that she couldn't hang out so she wouldn't answer my texts. Bullshit.
So we chatted a bit and I asked her to hang out tomorrow and she's saying she's not sure as she has a lot of things to do.
how are you still asking her to hang out? move on. even if she does hang out with you it's not because of attraction, she knows she can have you in whatever form whenever she wants so there's no respect for you, keep your dignity, and this is where I stop reading.

Note: sometimes just walking away and making clear you're nexting her by saying "hey if you change your mind let me know" does a lot. I got my ex gf like that (after 20 days of no contact she invited me over to her house for our first date lol) and my now fwb took 10 days to respond to a text of mine.

walk away and never look back.

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PostPosted: Sun Nov 10, 2013 9:16 pm 
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Thanks guys, I've really learnt a lot form your comments.
I should just move on and look for other girls. Thanks mates!


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PostPosted: Thu Nov 14, 2013 2:51 am 
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By the way, the "if you change your mind let me know" from Obi above is pure gold. It's masculine, to the point, and shows a girl that you're not going to be chasing her.


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