Hi guys,
I'm new to this forum but you guys actually helped me at the start of my relationship around a year ago. Things are going well with my girlfriend and its starting to get serious.
However... there is a tedious problem in the form of ex's on Facebook.
My girlfriend posts and a couple of her exes may post comments in response.
Recently she posted a message gushing about me and one guy made a response saying 'vomit' and she responded.
A few questions if you'll be so kind to answer...

1. Should I be making comments to these guys?
2. Should I be asking my girlfriend to block/exclude them from messages or more?
3. Any ideas more than welcome.

This comes up from time to time and its bugging me that these guys can jump in and comment on her posts (especially when they're about me). Any help/guidance would be appreciated!

Thanks!

Guys, any advice on this?

I know it might seem like a juvenile question but I'd appreciate some advice.
I'm lost as to where to take it from here.
I've spoken to guys who have cut off completely from their ex's online but I don't want to come across as jealous and obsessive but it makes sense to me that if things are serious - all contact with exes should be cut off.
Any ideas?!

Thanks!

First of all, Pua are the worst for relationship advice.
I do not care if a girl is talking with her ex or perhaps fucking them, because im too busy getting other girls to bed.

In your case, remember dont let the noises drown out your own voice. You dont need to care about facebook messaging. Horny guys will always try what they can to get laid. Instead focus on how to improve your relationship in different ways like more cool dates and maybe travel together.

And one more thing, make sure you and your gf have a healthy boundary. couple things include in this.
1-dont see each other too much, its for your own good, you will get more things done and less bored of her.
2-The time you are with her make sure is quality time and encourage her to share her emotions with you.
3-dont be jealous of some random people.

Here is a video to abetter understand my point
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wxWuREjuLAE

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Let them be jealous man; none of this should concern you on any level. They're making comments making themselves seem like they still aren't over her. That isn't going to attract her. It is the guys who aren't making comments that it is all possible she may have a feeling for.

Seems like a middle/highschool thing; be older; be mature. If it concerns you; they're winning and they have a shot. If its kiddy stuff to you; you don't have anything to worry about.

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Thanks guys... I appreciate it.
I had a quick talk with her earlier and it was her reluctance to change the situation and give the dude another opportunity to comment that took me by surprise... the comments have since been deleted and she'd 'lowered' her friendship status with the dude.

Heartnet,
Thanks for the link to the video. I guess I'm a bit insecure - this is my first serious relationship in a long time.
I was actually at the point where I'd written down a couple of thoughts that were bothering me and was considering sitting with her for a couple of minutes just to see what she was thinking :S
We've actually been away together and had a lot of cool dates.
We're now at the stage where she may be moving in with me so I wanted to get this childish crap out on the table and put it to one side. It was bugging me but your video gave me a lot of perspective.
Any further advice / tips would be greatly appreciated!