flexbrah, you are more than welcome to give bad advise, and that is fine, the op can take your advise which in my opinion and experience is horrible... And can go out there and field test or he can take my advise like other people in the forum have and field test. Now, if i were the op i would not take the advise of a guy that has a post like this(exhibit at the end), if you are gonna open in the dancefloor the best is to open none verbally, he can take my advise and try it, or open with your "ridiculous opener" and openers don't matter, but when women are dancing going in verbally is a horrible idea, but you with post like this would not know:

Author Flexbrah:

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On the dance floor, it is best to open non-verbally. I used to come up to girls very firmly and ask if they wanted to dance and then take them by the hand. I still do that when approaching a group and it works pretty well.

Most of the time, I just do a combination of proximity game or simply look a girl in the eyes and wait for her to come up to me.

Talking to a girl while dancing is a good way to build an emotional connection. The important thing is to convey the most meaning with the fewest amount of words.

Did you field test what I do at night clubs? How are you going to pull up a thread of me over a year ago and expect me to have not grown?

On a side note, Kasabi is a very knowledgeable dude whose posts I value a lot. He called you a keyboard jockey so that says something. Hell Hound also said you have keyboard jockey tendencies.

I'm not saying it's true... I'm just saying.

I used to go in non verbal and just go with the music start dancing then dance with the chick... I have to admit that the rejection rate is lower... but the risk is not worth the lower rejection rate imo. If a chick is with her boyfriend, over-protective brother, etc... chances of physical altercations increase 10 fold. Personally, if I get in a fight, I won't be able to go out to any clubs for a long time... and that isn't worth it for me.

Do what works for you. Do what you value most.

^ so now you are agreeing with me. Physical altercations wtf you are talking about dude... If you go none verbally and the girl has a bf or brother she will reject you via body language or dance with you and then move on, I have never had a physical altercation for dancing with someone sister, wife or gf.