Hey guys real quick question:

When you ask a girl to hang out that you know is interested in you and she responds with "maybe"...i will usually say "don't give me that maybe shit" or "if you decide too late i'll be busy".

What's the best way to respond/handle? If she's gonna do that shit should immediately say "ok nevermind" and make plans with someone else and hopefully she'll realize by playing games with me i won't wait around or even be "intrigued"....because i really didn't care. But...if i want to make plans...i don't want to fuck around ...i just want to know if it's going to happen or not. Simple.

I had this same problem. The only solution that I have come up with is, instead of just asking her if she wants to hang out. figure out something that you wouldn't care if you did alone or not and ask her if she wants to come with.

For example - I'm going to shoot pool tonight wanna come with?
or - I'm Going to see a movie wanna come?
Or it can even be something that's not so date like. I invited a girl to my band practice before, she didn't want to come, but the fact that I asked to her attend something important to me made me seem inportant to her.

TITCR.