Morning PUA,

So the other night I went to this rave with a friend and 3 girls, I had been talking to the HB9 for a few days before and it was all flowing, we get to the party and all dropped some m (bad decision) started talking to HB9 more and more, dancing together grinding I got load of IOI's and the pill was kicking in then I left te group for a while for some reason battery on my phone ran out and I found them after an hour of searching was hugging hb9 talking more and by that point I felt like I was in love with this girl and it was really fucking my head so I started acting up quite strange with the pill and those feelings anyway at some point while dancing I told her i want to show her something so i took her away a bit this was when the pill was starting to wear off and I missed the striking points before which i had relaized but told my self go for it so we were stood there and my head was really fucking up thinking i was in love with this girl and i didnt get a single word out so she got me back to the party and then i went out for a bit no nbattery no phone and started to walk for at least 90minutes at 4am lended up on a junkyark chilling and felt connected to this girl in every way and it was just really fucking scaring me as i did not want to fall in love there the last time was a bit ago but I got fucked over big time and wasnt planing on going back anytime soon anyway I managed to find them we all got into the car and drove home the girls were talking with each other and I didn't talk a single word I got home and went to sleep when I woke up I relaized what i had done and don't feel like im in love with her at all it was the worst E experience of my life normally I enjoy the music people etc but every time i started talkign to people or dancing I always wanted to go back to this girl as i felt really connected to her no matter what i did i enjoyed nothing.

I need to fix this advice would be much appreciated!

Can you not think of the solution yourself?

Let me help... Stop taking drugs then your problem of being off your trolley will be solved.

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Stop taking drugs will not help me getting laid right right now, I drop 1-2 times a year when I go to Ibiza and on a summer rave I'm high on air my everyday life but I like taking E occasionally that's just me, I've had good experiences but this time I really wish I wouldn't have dropped worst experience of my life, but it is what it is and I'd rather come up with a solution to get my hb9 into bed than crying around how the E fucked me up

Try heroin instead.

Honestly, who falls in love with people they just met? *facepalm*

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Aight if you can't respect if someone likes to drop occasionally why the hell you posting? I've not just met her I've know her for several years but never got to know her well till 3 weeks ago, we went out clubbing (YES WITHOUT E) chilled on the beach and I did drink a beer and intoxicated myself slightly you should try it sometime it's a smoother drug as I take it you have never taken drugs which is good but to explain E makes you feel connected to things at raves music which was not the case for me and on this one i felt connected to her while on E but now sober I feel no emotion or connection to her at all I just want to bang her so are you going to input something useful or keep hating on me taking E and extending your post count?

COOL STORY BRO

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The meme is fully agreeable but what you doing trolling here silly bastard

He gave you advice.

You're taking E which fucked you up. You even said it yourself. His advice, as simple as it is, was "Stop doing drugs. Problem solved." You retorted with "But I like to do E and stopping won't help me get laid." It WILL help you get laid. Drugs and alcohol are the same in PU, take anything or too much of something that will fuck you up and make you forget what you're actually doing will severely handicap you for picking up women. As a rule of thumb when you go out to pick up women you don't get drunk. At most you have one or two pints for the entire night. Sure you get a boost to your confidence but you learn nothing.

Fucks sake i'm not a fucking crack head, I have a stable life, I have my own company at 19, have a crazy income and have come a long way in the past year. When I take E it is not with the intention to get laid, I like raves once or twice a year like I had mentioned before that is where I usually drop and enjoy the music and yes it was stupid to drop with this scenario of course drugs handicap you from picking up women as clear logical thinking is immediately gone. When I go out clubbing I might have 2-3 drinks have my fun and get a girl at least 2-3 a month i'm still at the inception point of my PUA game but, am improving all the time that's the only way we can learn. Yes I fucked my self up on E the other night but once again i'd rather solve the problem of getting the girl into bed than regretting taking E. Is anyone willing to input any ideas how I should approach her or is everyone just going to tell me that I need to stop E as it is not healthy for me, which I very well know myself. If I wanted that kind of advice i'd be on a rehab forum and not on PUA i'm just looking for ideas to get this bird back after my fuck up, it was the first time on E this year and the last for a very long time after this action trust...

Your punctuation clearly shows you are currently on drugs.

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just the afterglow.

Had I left the drug part out I would most definitely have gotten more input goddammit.

The replies would have been the same.

"Don't place a woman too high on your list." The original reply was basically telling you why you were placing this woman so high up and on a pedestal: The drugs. If you weren't on drugs and you still felt a special connection to this girl we would have told you to fuck ten different women and get over her. Why? Because she's not special. For every one girl you meet that's amazing and you feel a connection with there's thousands more within walking distance.

Also, in your original post you didn't say you wanted to get back with her or work on her. You just told us about the story behind a girl and how you fell in love with her then blamed the E and asked us how to fix it, as in the drugs part fucking you over. If you're asking how to get back with this girl then you already have half the answer: Don't put her on a pedestal.

Now, what you do after that is you get in touch with her. Don't be a pussy about it and just shoot the shit with her. Add her on FB, say something like "Last night was banging" or whatever lingo you'd normally use. Converse with her, compliment her a bit and then ask to meet up. Bring up the drugs thing and just get it out of the way if she's crazy into it or just does it every now and then.

Ye obviously there's enough fish in the see something news always going to come along. I felt connected on E as that's what it does to you but it's left me now, back to reality just a girl I want to shag i'm moving to Barcelona next month anyway so the goal is to shag her, i'm not here to seek the love of my life.

I stand corrected on that one, yes i'm asking how to get back with her.
I got her number and FB and I will talk to her, she was less pilled than me like I said that E really fucked me up and they realized too as I was talking bare loads of shit and was acting up I regret it. She only does it occasionally on raves too, but what do I tell her when she asks why I took her out onto the field told her i wanted to show her something and then didn't talk? I guess I could just tell her I was fucked out of my head and had no idea what i was doing

Don't acknowledge past mistakes unless she brings it up. Don't directly answer her.

If she brings it up just say "Oh, that's right. I completely forgot about that... I'll show you when I see you. Promise. " If she doesn't bring it up and you meet her bring it up by saying "I'll show you that thing I wanted to show you when we were out the other night." then just do whatever you were going to do.