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Hi,
This is a specific situation, and i know this will sound dumb but here goes...
Firstly about myself, im 21, i did ok before PUA but i was always a confidence player, going from famine to feast(once f closed three new girls in a week followed by 8 months of celebacy). I suffered depression and ocd and would often tell myself i was useless with woman as i had never had a gf(despite k closing hundreds and f closing double figures). Since taking up PUA, i havnt really done much better, i enjoy talking to a girl and probably k close more, but i put huge pressure on myself and beat myself up when i fail. Iv also had several bad things go on in my life recently so not in the best place mentally. . .
Anyhow enough about me, the situation is that i managed to get a free ticket to a 2 day concert with a friend, a girl he is f-ing, plus her friend(HB-7). I met the friend once, i didnt really use any routines, just being friendly, funny, confident and not too keen. My friend has since said that shes been talking about me alot and kinda likes me.But, he knows my confidence issues and may just be saying it so im in 'high confidence mode'.
My question is, how do i f-close at the concert(its an overnight camp), presuming my mate will end up with his girl, how do i f-close without putting too much pressure on it, thus making it awkaward. Also, this girl does not drink alcohol, so could this make my job harder? I wouldnt bother you guys but i've never really read anything regarding this.
Thanks in advance guys.
Hey mate
You need to tune up your inner game. Let what your friend told you build your confidence don't think anything past that. All the thoughts you have had like oh she doesn't like me my friends just trying to boost my confidence put them out of your head now!! The thing is you're focusing too much on the fclose and not enough on the lead up. Just think I am gonna meet up with this girl we're gonna have a great time. I am gonna suggest you get this girls # from your friend call her don't txt. Have a friendly convo with her develop tcc trust comfort connection . Thatll put you one step ahead when you see her at the concert when you do see her be the cool confident funny guy you were when she met you that's the guy she likes. Dance with her a bit if the music is right for that when the time is right go for a kiss. Don't spend all your time thinking about the fclose make it happen but have fun with all the steps that lead to it. Hope that helps good luck