Heey I really hope I could get some help with this one. I bet with you guys I CAN get out of it and make it work if I play it all by the pua way.

8 months ago I met an HB8 blonde she just turned 16 and me almost 23.
I met her in the club and made out with her. Next day I found her on FB and we went on a date day after.
She started making out with me after date. Few weeks later another date. And she was the one telling me we could go find some place quit and made out again.

Now after this I diddn't really thought It could work in a relationship and she kept asking me to meet up, kept texting me. I kinda ignored her after a while. a few months later just before carnaval I started texting again and wanted to meet up in club that night and make it all up. But I had to wait 2 hours outside and when I got in she was making out with someone else. No contact anymore. Few months later I started contact again and we started flirting, met 3 times. First she thought I just wanted to be friends, then the last date she knew I wanted more and I started to really feel someting for her..

The mistake I made was before when she started to feel things for me I diddn't text to much or started it. This time I did. I gave her 2 many signs I liked her. She told me that she had feelings for me when we met up but when texting she kinda lost attraction over SPAM.

Now she told me before carnaval she started to really feel something for me. Then at carnaval she felt quite gulty she had already made out with someone when she saw me. Thought I diddn't came at all. Worst thing was. When I arrived I wanted to text her I was their and just when I wanted to click send my battery went dead!

The last date we had, we went drinking and a movie and afterwards she was again the one really wanted to make out with me. I said friends don't do it. But she did made out with me on a way that I could feel their was feelings in it from both sides. Afterwords she started hanging on me. But 3 days later she said she regretted it. And that even thought she had feelings she diddn't wanted it anymore cozz I blew it before.

I now when we do SPAM respond short, late and unpredictable. Last night I changed picture and she randomly asked a question about it.

I really want her and get her to keep a bit of the feelings. Best thing is we are going to play tennis in a month. So I do have chances to meet up with her.

Now dear best awesome pua's. Should I keep doing small texts or wait till she starts a convo. Do nothing at all ignore for a month and then start. What would my best chances to fix this? She also told me when she made out with me she felt more then other guys but not love yet. So need to be attractive again on SPAM a bit and then fix it in real life?

Thanks for reading!

I stopped reading there dude... That's fucking creepy. That's called statutory rape where I'm from.....

You should stop. Thats fucking weird.

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Well, in my country It's not crime if you don't have sex with her, but if you do have sex with her, her parents can put you on prison... so beware! You are still young to go to prison, always take that note in mind! Also try to search for your country's laws if it's ok if you make out with girls below 18.
In my country you can have a relationship with a minor, since it's a considerable age, nothing like a man with 70 years making out with a 10 years girl.
Also you only have 4 years difference, which is not much of a difference.

Anyway, it's your life but beware of the future problems!

I have to tell you something, that girl doesn't like you, she never did, that's why she regretted about it, i explain you why:
You know that girls become more mature quickly than boys, it's nature doing its thing, so when they become ladies, they have a need to find out a mature buy, which they can't find on their age, so that's why they chose older guys, that's why all of you guys saw your female classmates attracted to older guys.
So what i mean is, you are older, that's why she liked you and she wanted to be with you.

I gave classes to a class of 15~18 years, almost all girls were attracted to me, they started conversations over facebook, also one of them gone strait for it and i was like: wtf!?

So what i mean is: She just want to have fun, it's on her age, she doesn't think much about relationship and shit, relationship on that ages doesn't take long.

Ok enough about life and shit...
You have to create comfort on her again otherwise she'll still continue acting like how she's doing.
So to create comfort you have to make her think that everything is ok with you and you don't have any problem about her acting like that, when she asks "how are you", just say "I'm amazing i was camping today, imagine what i did!" (exaggerate on positive things and also make her ask you questions), send her pics about your cats and shit, cute things, you know, and talk about it, it captivate interest on the girls of that age.
Also when she answers you, give her huge gaps of time, don't reply right away.

Don't start to talk about your feelings, she'll start to fight even harder and then you'll not be able to get her.

It's not going to be easy mate, when girls start to do that you have to give them a lot of time, more than 1 mth, but you should move on if nothing positive happens in your life in 1 mth, you are just losing time!
Best of luck

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Yes I get why some fommind it creepy. But I really dpnt look 23. More like 18. And she more like 18 aswell and acts that way.
Plus when I met here I had no idea. But no. No sex. And I never tried to go further then kissing.

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Ok enough about life and shit...
You have to create comfort on her again otherwise she'll still continue acting like how she's doing.
So to create comfort you have to make her think that everything is ok with you and you don't have any problem about her acting like that, when she asks "how are you", just say "I'm amazing i was camping today, imagine what i did!" (exaggerate on positive things and also make her ask you questions), send her pics about your cats and shit, cute things, you know, and talk about it, it captivate interest on the girls of that age.
Also when she answers you, give her huge gaps of time, don't reply right away.

Don't start to talk about your feelings, she'll start to fight even harder and then you'll not be able to get her.

It's not going to be easy mate, when girls start to do that you have to give them a lot of time, more than 1 mth, but you should move on if nothing positive happens in your life in 1 mth, you are just losing time!
Best of

Thats some awesome advice! Yea with the feelings I ready thought of just ignoring it. Dont let her know. Should I now first wait a few weeks before picking it up?

Yea luckily I got an date friday with an other hb8! Could try makw a pic and post it on fb sk she will see..

Whoa whoa whoa! I stopped at 16 and 23. You leave that little girl alone you sick fuck. Go meet girls your own fucking age. 18 is the cutoff for you. For me i still think thats too young. i personally look for a women, not a daughter. What would a 23yo be proving by sleeping with a 16 year old? That your a pedophile. That's all. If you want it that easy go bbw not child!! You better be glad that's not my little girl, your asking to have your head end up in a fucking ditch somewhere never to molest again. Makes my blood boil.

Ok I read it. Here's my advice. Freeze her out for at least 2 years and never attempt to game a child again. K

Dudes serious.. Should not always just look at an age. Shes 17 now. I stopped after the first 2 meetups cozz of the age but when she almost turned 17 she was already soo much more mature. And I first thought she was 18 when I first met her. So then all of sudden when I find out shes 16 and I am 22 I should just stop it while she doesn't acts that way. Thats more stupid..
In Holland its not that big of a deal. You have people of 23 who really are and look 23 and you have me who looks more like 18.

I could post a pic if yu guys want.. I don't live in America, Its diffrent here.

NO! Don't do that, that's a lame step, jealousy just make people angry, doesn't help shit, and she already put an idea on her head. she's doesn't want a relationship or anything with you, so you'll just give her more reasons to make her to have a more strength feeling about that that.
Meet up with this new girl, game her but don't post pics on FB.

Best of luck

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Thanks, I have to say I'm scared to meet this girl.. I could've dated before with her but man she is an HB9 actually, and I already know to much about her sex life. Yesterday she told me she usually falls in love with guys she can't get. Last time she dated with a guy of 37 who had a wife and kids and she slept with him. That kinda stuff. And that she almost always kisses on dates that are nice. But somehow I find it hard to think I would be good enough for her. But she does show interrest now on fb wich I find odd..

But thanks, won't do it then. Well the thing really is. She did had alot of feelings for me everytime we meet up and she found it verry nice to be around me. Only I talked way to much on SPAM and she said feelings dissapeared cozz of no attraction their. And she did wanted a relationship but at that time I ignored her kinda alot. And now she think it Could never work out cozz I really hurted her feelings when she did wanted something. So I don't believe she never wanted anything.

When a girl tells you shit like that... You are already in the friend zone. Forget about this girl. Before she introduces you to her boyfriends parents and really pisses on your emotions.....

Yea thats my date next week. Not the girl I really want but screwd up. I thought about that aswell, but If I can get one k-close or f-close out of it with a girl like that I'd be a happy man with a big confience boost

That's you seeking validation and value from her. Don't do that. You don't "need" her.

Yeh it can be, but zwiggelbig give it just on shoot and see what you can get, if nothing, then move on.
Girls sometimes say that to make guys think they fight for their dreams, but i'm not sure about she's talking about other dudes to you, girls how are interested on you don't talk about other guys. But who knows, sometimes there's no reason for what they say

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Hmm she did told me once after the last date she wanted someone who really fought for her. I diddn't say that I'd like her on any of the dates. And at some dates she thought I just wanted to be friends while actually I wanted more but diddn't let it know. So who knows. But yur right I should just try it. I have chances to still meet up with her 1 on 1. And If I can then just create attraction again and keep quit in SPAM..

But now we havn't talked for 2 days on SPAM and I want to open something shorts to keep me in her mind. I wanted to ask this :''Heey you going out tonight as well, or you have to work tommorow?''. But that isn't that cool... What would you say psydaddy to open it up on text?