So visited some friend's at the weekend. We decided to end the night at a strip club owned by the guy that lives next door to my mate. So basically it's a typical small club for the UK, with some sofas, a bar and a small stage with a pole and rooms out back if you want to pay for a dance.

I was just chilling on the sofas chatting to some other people in there whilst my friends went and got dances. I was acting disinterested in the girls, trying to use alpha body language etc. This gorgeous petite brunette girl came over and knelt down by me and my mate and starts chatting. He was all excited as he just had a dance, whilst I was cool and just grunted answers at her. She starts asking if I'm shy and comments I look bored and focused all her attention on me, ignoring my mate answering back. After 15 mins of chatting she asks to sit down next to me and squeezes in the sofa right by me.

We then spent the next two hours chatting about her hobbies, about her aspirations in life, what she studied at uni, about her bike and loads of other things but most importantly not about her stripping or escorting. She was making every excuse to touch me such as punching me after jokes etc. We even started counting something with our hands which I turned into a bit of wrestling with our hands.

She said a few times we seem to have a lot in common and it was really strange how much we did. She said she had never spent so long chatting to someone. She obviously seemed really interested because she could have been spending the time making money. I survived several attempts to cock block either by guys interrupting to shake my hand saying I was the man for talking to her, guys asking her if she would give them or their friends a dance, or the other girls coming over to do the "save", all of which she knocked back. I even had a guy interrupt aggressively asking if I was going to ask her for a dance after chatting to her for hours which she again knocked back saying we were chatting.

So it was time for the club to close and she said she was off to get changed as she had a house party which she mentioned earlier. She asked if we could swap numbers so I took her number as sneaky as I could as she said she would get in trouble if she was seen giving her number out. As she got up to go I said don't leave without a kiss on the cheek goodbye. She turned smiled and gave me a long peck on the cheek, and whispered in my ear.

This made me an instant hero in front of all my mates.

But here's where it went wrong.....

I text her the next evening (Sunday) as I thought I would the three day rule to strike whilst she still remembered. It was just a cheeky text referencing something we talked about. But I never got a reply.

So I then called tonight (Tuesday) but failed epically. I asked who it was on the phone and she then replied with who is this to which I replied I asked first and then she hung up. I called again but it went to voice mail. I have left a message again referencing what we talked about but do not expect a reply.

I clearly messed up with the phone call but not sure why the text didn't get a reply. Maybe it was too soon but with her being a stripper I thought it would be best to do it whilst I was fresh in her mind.

Maybe she was put off by the fact I had two text messages come up on my phone by other girls when I got her number.

Maybe she wanted me to go to the house party and I should have called her that night (It was 4 in the morning when the club closed though).

She seemed so interested when chatting in the club both myself and all my mates watching are a little confused why this hasn't gone further.

Any feed back would be appreciated guys.

LD

She's a stripper she knows how to compete with other girls for a guys attention so I wouldn't worry about the texts. It could be any number of reasons sometimes girls give their # out you think you have chemistry and they're just toying with you. The phone call definitely didn't score you any points but its not nessecarily the end of the game text her this say hey its so and so from the other night (make sure she knows you're the one that she talked to for nearly 2hrs) then just be like clearly this relationship is not working out we need a divorce I get the house money and cars you take the kids. I've had girls suddenly stop replying I've used that line 5 or 6 time and had positive results everytime and a reply in less then a minute. On a way you're presenting a challenge. Also I've reccomened thus site numerous times because its helped me improve my game www.badboylifestyle.com he has an ebbok you can download about texting and what not. Give that a try I find that line works good on girls you've just met. Anyway good luck hope that helps a bit.

Thanks Gunfighter, I really appreciate the feedback. No matter how much success I've had there's always a new challenge that presents its self. Thanks for the link, I've checked it out and there's a lot of good stuff on there.