Everythings magical...

Then oh shit! They get back with the ex. This chick is in the process of moving in with her ex. And yes probably F*ing casually.

She lives far so Im not THAT upset. Its just I still want that sex from her. Wish it was the way it was before.

Whats the best thing to do? I think putting on your best game, while she's in love mode with her ex is a bad idea. Maybe wait a week? Let him make the mistakes he did in the past? I've always thought that's what I would do in a situation like this, first time it's happened.

Yeah I realize I was the rebound. I admit I was getting attached, but now I see her faults (WAY sluttier than I prefer.) Still want to hit it one last time.


I am gaming other women and theres more success. More numbers and dates. But holy hell, when you know the one you want/ed isnt feeling you anymore, that kills the hype.


It sucks pulling your best game and seeing it have no effect. I cant see her for another month anyway. Should I take some time away from her (freeze out) or just keep things short + sweet + talking about other girls (escaping friendzone style stuff.)

I cant see her for a month. If I wait, knowing how emotional and yo-yo-ish she is, she might lose those lovey dovey feelings for him. But if I wait too long they might just do the relationship thing again. Not sure. I dont want feelings anymore, just to get in and keep her on the side.

She wants to do a weekend together. But if she pretty much ties the knot, and the guard is up, I dont wanna have to work for sex.

And I have definitely NOT found a girl I know well enough to replace her. Only phone numbers, dates ,etc. Im just wondering the best course of action. She still texts me, but I feel like getting space might make her miss me. It could also blow up in my face.

Just occasionally ping with her.
Dont want to work for sex? Then quit PUA now. Hangout with her. A few of these guys have replied to my threads too and they will agree sex is something you must work for. Even when girls say they want sex from you, you will have to work for it when the time comes.

Like a Ferrari, you want it? go out and get it, work for it.

Haha It's just a piece of wet skin dude. Work for it.. Why? You can't compare a pussy to a ferrari; because EVERY single girl has one! lol Nothing special about it. Ferrai's are actually rare and special, you don't seem them everyday.

Pussy comes easily and frequently to all who share that mentality. Why do you think 20% of men sleep with 80% of the women? Are we individually working for every one? No dude.. With the right mentality it just falls into our lap.

I do have the mentality that pussy shouldnt be THAT hard to get.


The reason why Im not into working for it, is because she pretty much shelved me as #2 (or even less.) I think if I was first meeting her and she had a bf / open ex, I'd totally be in for the work. It's like a slap in the face, to have to "wonder" if youre going to get it after she's shelved you.

Today I she sent me a bunch of messages on SPAM, since we dont live near each other. I didnt get back to her right away. Then I tried to call her and she immediately hung up. Childish. That is why if its an easy lay, sure. If you have to work, its like not only did you step on me, you want me to work for it.