Hello,

I was dating this cute 26y.o asian girl.
First date we met at a cofee place, had some light kino and
ended with a hug. One thing I noticed that she came with
a time constraint and her mom called her during the date.
She lives with her mom.
Second date, we went to the movies, started well, she asked
me how far I live from there which I thought was a good sign.
Anyway, I hold hands with her in the movie. Then when
the movie ended her mom called again and she was
kinda rushing to her car. I thought we could hang
some more, but she had to go, so I escorted her to her
car, I asked if she wants to do something this weekend,
she said she dosent know yet, but I should text her.
I tried to kiss her goodnight, but she rejected my attemp, saying I was
moving too fast. How should I proceed? Should I still ask her about
the weekend plans, or she's not interested and just not text her at all
and wait for her init.? Please advise.

Thanks!

Suggestions?

Hey dude,

you are going to have to organize the way you wrote that a bit better; it isn't easy for me or any one to gauge whats happening with your situation. State your story, ask a question, in normal written format. This isn't poetry class.

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You were waiting for that "right moment" and you missed it because you don't want there to be "that big moment" you want it to just happen. Kissing is a level of kino comfort. You didn't escalate properly, so when BOTH TIMES you were waiting until the end of the date to "try and make your move," thats where you fucked up. I don't see it as you moved too fast... But more you moved too slow.

She was probably thinking to herself at the end of the first date "Why the fuck did this guy hug me? I'm 26 years old. I want to get fucked and this guy says goodbye with a hug?" That's like a girl giving you a fucking hand job... You wanna know the best way to give a hand job? With your mouth. Kiss the girl next time, at the latest, by the first date.

She gave you a second chance with the second date.. which means she probably really liked you. Most girls wouldn't be able to do that. But then... You did it again. You waited until that last moment to "make a move" and you weirded her out by it.

I'd back off of this one, act as if you don't need her and you don't give a fuck for a while. Don't text her like she said to do... Wait for her to text you first. She may or may not... But other than that, you shot yourself in the foot. Moral of the story: Don't be such a pussy next time.