Hey,

Recently I was after a girl that I like, but I just understand that I should go on, because it doesnt look like something will happen.
And what better than a new girl to distract me from that girl?

There is a girl(cousin of the previous girl ) that known as "flirty", we are going out sometimes with other friends sometimes in the neighborhood(Both of the girls are friend of mine from the neighborhood), she is always giving compliments to any guy, but I've noiticed that she does it especially to me.

Now... Its really hard to tell if she's into me, if another girl would jump happily anytime she sees me, remaind me how "handsome" and "smart" and how "charitable" I'm, I was sure that she is into me. But this girl tells anyone that they are handsome or whatever it is, just doing in more happily and often to me. The second problem is that I dont know how she is acting toward her friends that I don't know, I'm usually hanging out with her only with the neightborhood's friends.

I was just returned home after sitting with her and with another friend, she was much more focused on me after about 2 weeks we didnt meet(Like that other one say something, she's saying "Yeah... cool" and continue her conversation with me). So I decided that I have to get it clear, does she really into me or just flirting like she does with anyone else? I have no idea how to check this.

Just to make it clear, amoung our "group" we dont have the best friends relationship, we don't meet each other alone or talking in phone as we do with other friends, but we does... umm... acting as good friends? when we are sitting with other friends.

Well mate, she can do that to make you jealous about it, since you hear it, she tells that next to you. Start to do the same, say to her what you think about x girl (that you both don't know!! avoid her to try to make you meet up with some girl her or you know), then see her reaction, see if she fights back with the same topic (if she tells you something about other guys).

Also ignore her and talk to the other girls, see if she fights for your attention.
Also say to her: Ohh you are so cute!! I want to make you my little sister... we can make our own tree house and drink kool-aid, what you think about that? (this is a routine from a guy that i forgot but i particularly like).
Also you can add something like: "But i must advice you that i don't play with your dolls!" yah you know, just don't put too much on it!

You can do some push and pull interactions, this make girls crazy, like:
You giver her a hug (because she was nice to you for example): Ohh (like if you are seeing a puppy) you are so nice (open your harms, and hug her), then push her away and say: that's enough for today!

Also when she complements you you can say (playfully):
- Are you trying to poll off a complement from me? (don't pause here!) Ok, you have right to have just 1 complement, want me to use it now or you want to save it for latter?
- If she says: Now!
- You say: "You are ok!" (neg)
- Her: Just ok?
- You: Hey, i said that you only had 1 complement ... (pause) ... (grab your balls) ... and say what you think about her, fiscally and "personalitly" but don't over complement her! Just do your stuff and end up with something you don't like on her (something that she can change), like: But i'm not sure about that shoes...

Also if she says that she's not pretty you can say:
- You know that pretty it's just genetics ... or you can pay for it, on the other hand personality has higher value since you can create your own, and as i can see you have both so stop being modest... (and grab your balls when you say this!!!)

Tip: Don´t just complement her, show interest and then tease or neg her after

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Wow ty man, I will try these tips.

I've to admit that it's a little different for me, I'm not that "hugger" guy, or the one who throws compliments to girls usually, just not a pick up guy.

I've heard about tricks to know if girl is into you(such as if her foot pointed at you most of the time, or something like that?), but as I know its a bit trick with flirting girl, is there really a way to check this things out?

you could always just tell her what you said here and ask her the same question you want answered here, and not worry about what happens since it probably won't be much of a big deal either way

Probably, this is the best advice I'll get, but I guess i can't do it ><"

want to know if shes into you? ask her out

Believe or not this actually is true, a few months ago, me, my mate, a girl and some other people went to a cinema, and i noticed that she had her foot pointed at him, i thought: Oh no way this is just some bullshit that i read on a website... few days after they started a relationship... so it's true (or just some coincidence)!

I don't know about girls touching their hair, they do that all the time.

The only thing that i know is that when a girl mess with you, like when they kick your foot, or when they shove
you they want something from you, which is most of the times, get laid.

Other kind of stuff you can easily spot is: like if she get really close to you, if she lean in to you, if she places her head in your shoulder, of if she make clearly excuses to touch you.
I highly recommend you to be much available as possible, like show her that she can touch you if she want to and you wouldn't be awkward about it.

Some years ago a girl show me some powerful weapon that only girls can do, it got me so deep on that action that you can believe. We were in a crowd, she put her self in front of me, and slightly put her body next to my left body, like if she was saying with her body: hug me. And to make this even more deep, she used to turn her head back to talk to me (don't moving her body, just her head), since it was a loudly place i had to lean in to talk to her. She got me in but for my shame i did nothing because her parents were near. It kinda sucks when parents are near.

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More tips:
Perfume:
- Use perfume, at least 3 different smells that you change by week, otherwise you can start to use too much because your brain accustom to the smell. Also the girls will notice a different smell every time you get with them.
- If you go out with a girl in different weeks never use the same perfume twice!
- Summer: Use cold perfumes (they usually makes you remind of the sea, they smell fresh)
- Winter: Use hot perfumes (they usually make you feel hot)
- Put perfume on targeted places, like if you have a scarf make sure you put there. - why? to spread your perfume on her... girls usually grab scarfs, believe me they do! This will make them think of you when they get home and fell their hands smell. So the idea is to give to her body your smell to make her remember of you. You had this thing before from a girl, didn't you think of her? Of course you did!
- After shave is not a big deal, just use it because it protects you.
- Don't mix perfumes, make sure all stuff you use is the same smell, like after-shave, gel, perfume, etc.

Beard:
Girls are digging beard but it has to be short, this is the acceptable choice: http://shechive.files.wordpress.com/201 ... ties-4.jpg you can get rid of the moustache, its up to you, but only do that if you get comfortable with your self. But if you have that fucking motard beards cut that shit!

Style:
Don't become a peacock, dress classy avoiding you to look a kid. Dress like a man. If you get comfortable in a classy jacket, dress a classy jacket! Do the best for you!

Health:
If you are fat, you have to do some sport, if you are like normal fat, it's ok, you only have to be able to see your cock from the top of you belly. If you are like fat as hell, do sports, go to a gim, girls like fat guys not obese guys! Being slim will make you healthier and more sexy!

got milk
If you are white, get some tun mate! white people are understood from society as nerds or geeks, because they don't get out from their house! They don't have social life! If you don't have social life, at least camouflage that!!!

Balds
If you are bald, just get some tun, you don't need hair to get girls, you only need a head and a brain!

Other things
Well, this you are going to read on books, and you are going to see on infields spy cams... it's the game... do your best and i wish you the best of luck!

See this
https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=p ... fZu1hLfscQ#!

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I will try this leg thing, even if it's a bit confusing...

I guess that my biggest problem is "showing that she can touch me", I was always uncomfortable with touching other girls that I don't have REALLY strong bond with them, it's always look... strange for me to go and hug a girl or start touching her. So usually I don't have a lot of touch with girls or messing with them.

Thank on the answer man!

you could always start by just holding her hand

Just take her hand? isnt it strange to do it suddenly if she isn't used to it?

yep, just hold her hand, have to start somewhere, if that makes you too anxious, try to do something you are afraid to do but doesn't seem out of the ordinary for you, constantly keep trying to challenge yourself and test your courage

What? That can become in one of 2 things: Creepy or Awesome, usually it turns out creepy!
You have to start slowly and escalate, hand holding need's confidence!
Start slowly, everything has time.

Btw, you said that you touch other girls easily than crushes, that's why i usually neg them first, believe me it makes me more confident because i start to interiorise to myself that she's not what i'm searching for, it turns out as a good internal game techie, it works for me tho!

You have a lot of things to do, this is not easy, you should be aware on how and what to respond, but always do your best and improve only one thing at the time, don't do all at once! Start to and put all of your effort on talking, then on "soft" kino (touch on harms, hands shoulders), then on eye contact, then on "extreme" (kino belly, neck, etc...) and you are almost done!
So first improve: Teasing and negs. Teasing it's almost the same as negs, but negs are usually used to make their egos lower than yours (usually you say something bad about a situation). Teasing is used to make her respond to you what you want to hear.
One of my examples: I asked i girl if she was ticklish, she said "no, but one place", and i asked her: "is it touchable?" see it was easy!

Example of a neg: ask her friends questions about her in front of her, something related to what she just said, like (turn your back to her) "is she always like this?"... or if she asks you: "Why you are here?", say: "I'm here to talk to him\her, you are not that important!"... if she don't want to do something cool with you then ask the girl next to you to do it with you (in front of her), if this new girl refuses to do it, just say: "Oh shit, what a bad day!" - Key of neg's: Show disinterest and put her in background!
Don't just neg, you should neg and then give her something to make her feel special, otherwise you become just a stupid person, for example, you say a neg and you can pause and then say: "but i still like you" (push and pull techniques).

There's so much kind of neg's that i would be here all day overflowing this post... just go with the vibe and don't trow garbage on them... be playful!

Note: You can't neg cute girls but you can tease them... negging is just for bitches! But you can still show no interest on them, but don't say it badly, say it cutely, like "You cute as kitten but hum i'm not allowed to have kittens my mom is allergic and she would accept you" (which is more or less of a teasing). If she bitch out on that then she is not cute, give her another neg, this time stronger!!

Best of luck! On and put me aware of your evolution, PM me anytime I'll answer you when i have time to, it's ok

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Thank man, your command really helps me.

Can you explain me a bit more about negging and teasing?

Tell me one thing first:
- Is she one of those cute girls that talk cute, act cute, you know.. if she's fluffy!?
- Or she's a bitch, she have a huge ego and she sometimes become a bad person to others or even to you?

Negging needs to be applied differently to them. For example, cute girls are always less outgoing, all they have is their short ego, so you are not able to destroy it! On the other hand, bitches have a huge ego, they are crazy... so you have to neg them badly so you can put their ego at the same level as the cute girls already have theirs! Believe me, they are not going to become cuties, they are still bitches, but you have the power to control their personality.

And why we neg girls? To make them accept us. But not only for that, it creates a thing that i usually call as "the forbidden fruit is the most coveted" because you show that you are not available for them, and then they start to think: "Wtf is wrong, why he doesn't show interest? I'm fucking Hot!" and they will try to find what is happening, they will seduce you, seek for attention etc... to understand what is happening with them, trying to understand if they are not attractive anymore.

You can neg cute girls badly but you have to show them that you are seriously joking, so this doesn't lean you to anything. For example: "This shirt looks so bad on you! I'm just kidding, it looks great". You didn't win anything because you have destroyed your objectives in your sentence with "I'm just kidding".

Basely what you say (abstractly) with negs is: I'm not convinced, try your best to convinced me that you are what i need.

The best teasing sentence that i usually use is: I ask what they do or what they imagine they would be in the future (job), so then i can be able to say: "Why not modelling?" i always had a lot of cool feedback from this.
Well i believe you can use this sentence too (but don't do it by sms or facebook or whatever) do it live!
Ask:
- You: Hey tell me one thing, what would you like the most to do as a job? (make this a serious question!!)
- She: Some bullshit she might say
- You (teasing): And why not model?
- She: Why, you think i'm hot? (She might shit-test you)
- You (negging): Well... (look to her hands) i like your hands (grab them) you could be a hand model! (smile)

If she doesn't reply anything after you teased her (but still smiled) then say (in a serious mode and with tone): "I'm fucking serious" (get up and pull her with you by her hand, then release her hand and look her from head to toe on a few distance form you) "look at you, you have this awesome green eyes, this cute face and this huge personality".... if you see that she is not diggin'it, just burn the situation by saying: Ok that's enough complements for just one day, don't get used to it!

See you can also use negs to protect your self from a bad situation if something for suddenly become awkward.

More questions?
Don't forget to answer what i've asked you on the top. And be more clear on what you want to know about negging or if i've already answered you question.

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Don't neg, it's not only unecessary but more often than not wi send off a negative vibe to the girl. The intent of begging is to bring the girl's ego down a notch or two so she begins to question. Herself and holds you at a relative perceived higher value. Weak guys neg.

Instead make her feel good, teasing is good so long as its good natured and not done with the Internet of making her insecure or feel bad.


How to discern if a girl is flirting?
-she's hanging around your area for no good reason (waiting to be opened)
-laughs and smiles a lot even at comments u make that you may not find funny
-twirls hair
-makes prolonged eye contact or shys away when you do
-approaches you for some reason
-touches u playfully during convo
-says she loves or likes something you do too (eg. A restaurant, bar, or activity of some sort-usually at that point they are subtly telling you to ask them out)