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Been dating this HB8 for 2 months now, I really like her. We're having a bit of a drama lama relationship if you will, we would argue over little things and then have make-up sex. Alot. I don't really mind as long as we can keep the drama level to a minimum?
Anyway...Out of the blue she tells me maybe its better to stay friends? So I'm like.. 'Yup, lets do that, friends..peace'.
What else am I supposed to do? Can't go on my knees & tell her I don't want to be just friends because I would come off as if I need to be in a relationship with her, right?
Suddenly she says that she just said that to see how I felt about that decision.. Like wtf?
I told her I'm sick of these games and that I want to be with her, period.
NOW..She just told me she's not good enough for me? She knows it & I knows it apparently.
How the hell do I react to this? I just told her I'm sick of these games.
I would like a solution in wich I get to stay with her in a relationship, the way I feel about this girl is new to me.
Haven't felt like this in like...ever, this is the first time.
Thanks
-kravous
bro, this chik is driving you crazy
sorry bout that. theres no solution to that i think. chicks dig playing games. if you cant handle it. its game over. i have this friend that flirts heavily with me each time we see each other. imagine what would ve happened if i suddenly i took her seriously and told her "look, do you really like me, lets be a couple". its game over. never take women too seriously, whether your banging her or your just her friend. try to be in that frame of mind that you just dont care where the relationship goes, thats the best place to be when you deal with women. then your free from the outcome. and you just simply dont give a shit. but since you already care for the girl which i think is a huge mistake to begin with i suggest you come up front and tell her you want a relatioship, if she doesnt want you the way you are now, she can go fuck herself. and then you next her.
CHAT