yo i have a situation im confused about

so there's this girl in my class thats not a 10 but her cuteness makes her very attractive to me.

so i met her like a year ago and after a lot of talking and stuff i invited her out. this was during last summer (in south america) and she said yes. we had chemestry but she fleaked, and after that i didnt talk to her until classes started again. (i invited her out by text, lame, i know. we were texting a lot so one day i just went for it idk. it has worked in the past but i know its not very PUA of me to do so.)

anyway when we talked again she said she just doesnt know how to say no to people and appologised bla bla. we stayed friends for a while and then i was like im not going to pretend to be her friend fuck that its fucking with my head. so i distanced myself from her. im an engineer student so cute girls in my classes tend to have like 3 AFCs arround them all the time so i started to make friends with everyone else in class and she started hanging out with the 3 AFCs that follow her and another girl.

i would say half of the engineering class of my year knows my name and i talk to more or less often. i talk to almost every girl and like 1/3 of the guys cuz some of them are such social dead ends and others just arent in my social circle. this gets me good results girls have opened me knowing my name when i didnt even talk to them ever and some flirt with me all the time.

so this first girl i distanced myself from, one night i was pissed drunk and i sent her a lame text saying

hey im sorry i just cant pretend to be your friend you are the girl i always wanted.

she was like what happend? did you go out? this was a tusday and i was on a business trip (im 20 years old though) and the guys that came with me brought me out that night. so yeah i tried to handle it the next morning but i couldnt do much. i wasnt to concerned about it anyway i dont really give a shit, there are other girls im currently going out with and stuff.

so this was like 3 weeks ago. since then i havent iniciated any conversations nor have i actively greeted her when i see her in class, but she does come and say hi when we cross paths. i mean its not that i ignore her, i just dont pay attention to her, you know what i mean? i continue with my life and dont please any value on her.

i have started noticing she tries to catch my eye when im looking at something close to her, to smile and say hi as she used to do when i was persuing her. i just look the other way usually.
she does come and say hi with a kiss on the chick as we use to do here in argentina, and she's idk, sweeter than usually when she does that.

normally if she was a normal chick i wouldnt give a fuck but this girl has something that makes me attracted to her. you know one of those girls that's cute and such a lovable person. no bad intentions could come from this girl, you know the type?

so yeah i wanna know you guy's opinions, from experience i think this girl just likes the attention that i use to give her. on the other hand, i am starting to get more popular arround school and girls always stop to talk to me.. some flirt with me. she sees that happening all the time.

you think its because of jelausy that she's acting this way or am i reading too much into the situation and she's just being polite? i dont think she would be like this if i wasnt this sociable with other people. like if i was a creep and i sent her that stupid message i did, she would try to avoid me, but its the opposit.

please dont say just go for it and see what happends. being regected in college is not as cheap as being rejected on a club, the word spreads and i need to mantein a reputation.

yo any opinion will be greately appreciated. thanks!

jason.

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I think you should keep doing what your doing, socialize with everybody and give her no attention. Wait out and see what happens, I don't think it's a good idea to jump on her the moment she starts giving you a BIT of attention.

totally agree, thanks

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