my story has been said so many times that now it needs to be said no more

guy here, transferred from one college to the next, current university is HUGE but I cannot manage to get a social circle going. Too late for me to rush a fraternity too.

I am not focusing on getting laid right now. My focus right now is on establishing a large social circle in the coming semesters. SO how do I start?

My goal is to find friends I can always rely on to hang out with and go out with. I am usually eating alone at dining halls unfortunately because a lot of my friends are upperclassmen that live a bit far off from campus and a lot of people at dining halls are freshmen and sophomores.

Things have pretty much turned upside down for me, at my last university I had so much going for me. I had a huge social circle and a lot of friends to eat with and hang out with.

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my advice is to get involved. As a guy who did rush and was in a house -- greeks are highly involved outside their own houses.

Join a fundraising organization, sports, etc.

Alot of them have a very small time commitment and generally entail bar crawls / social events. Our school had a big fundraiser and all the different committees would have bar crawls or there events for the fundraiser involved boozing/ socializing.

At the end of the day being the new guy can suck -- and you just have to throw yourself out there and be uncomfortable.

I had to do basically the exact same thing. I left Virginia and moved to San Diego. I got caught up pretty quick though between the gym, a running group, my new roommate and the girls I've been meeting. Have you looked into Intramurals? Those teams are almost always looking for people to join and getting on one or two of those should be enough to get you into a couple different social circles.

Dude talk to every person that comes into a 5ft radius of you. You'll be having tons of people to hang out after one week. You should do this all the time. No matter where you are. If you do this lesson will get you far in life not just women

^ that does not work as well in college where it is a closed social circle

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Social proof? yeah, let's misuse psychological concepts lol..

PUAs need to get with the programme. Not everybody needs to or wants to hang out with the masses. That's kind of an infantile standpoint, and a true alpha shouldn't need mass adulation.

A few friends is fine, but IMO seeking out the masses to hang out with is not what a confident person would do.

You have 444 posts on this forum so you're pick up skills should be in the top 2% of you're college, that's your "in" Use you PUA skills to pull some hotties and the guys will soon start hanging around you.

Just been to Gran Canaria on my own for a week, found the bar where it was all happening and on my first night pulled an HB10 from Finland who had three HB9 mates with her, you wouldn't believe how big my social circle was on the day I went home! The only downside was all the guys just wanted to talk about PUA all the time, I felt like Yoda .

nah, most of those posts are me whining and trying to improve

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1st off stop eating alone. make yourself known. the only way to meet new people and gain social proof is go out there and get the ball rolling. talk a lot as well. learn to like the sound of your voice. as style said in "the game", "one thing i noticed as rick talked was that people who liked the sound of their own voice tended to be better with women" but it doesn't have to stop there. i do this all the time. i throw myself out there and if they don't like me well i don't give a shit


vein

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Alright bro, you need to plant what I like to call 'Apple Trees'. This is how PUAs get large Social circles(Compared to being talented or having lots of money like other people.)

So yeah you're going to plant some 'apple trees'. Use PUA to attract hotties, and put them in the friend zone. While you continue to live an attractive life PUA style, These hotties will drop 'apples' in the form of more people you can interact with. Whether they are cool guys or more hotties for you to plant more 'apple trees' with, your social circle will just continue to grow. (A PUAs own Orchard to play around in!)

Literally, the hardest part about doing this is putting a HB in the Friend zone, because you CANNOT sleep with your apple trees under any circumstances (lol that sounds weird, but it's true) F-closing with your fruit bearing tree-girls is the same as cutting it down. It's not going to bear any more quality fruit once you cut it down, so once you decide to plant a girl stick with it!

Good luck mate.

-Syx

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I subdue the earth with my feet, steady and yet thunderous.

I lift the entire world upon my back with my own strength and determination. Who are you to tell me who or what I can be?

GREAT ADVICE

thank you

looking for more advice to build on that though

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Are you ever going to learn to post your shit in the correct sections?



I feel like that is you.

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is that you all you do on my threads?

race related or not you just spam them with nonsense?

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paramount.. you're clearly posting way to much on this forum. It's obvious that you're cumming inside your head, and that's it.

These posts give you some kind of high and you're like "Yes I'm going to do it" blablabla and you never do... then you make a new thread.

Shut up and man up bro. Da fuck is wrong with you?

You think Amita Bachan got where he is by being a fucking lame posting online?

You think his kid fucked Aishwaria by being some lame constantly posting online over and over again not taking action.

C'mon bro, just shut up and man up.

get out of my threads and go back to the misc

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