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| Phoxxx | PostPosted: Sat Apr 27, 2013 12:27 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Thu Mar 14, 2013 11:59 am Posts: 21 | | Yeh solid advice all around. She actually texted me this morning at 1:55 am while i was sleeping saying "Happy Birthday, how old are yuh now?
I have not texted her back yet and was just gonna go to work and do my thing. If i see her at work or make it home without seeing her I was thinking about texting/telling her "old enough to do it right, young enough to do it often. If she continues conversation i figure i would slip in the line "I am starting to become attached to you and I am not ready for that, so I need to take a step back."
I'll definitely remember what the prize is here with my texting game. ME
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| Psych3r | PostPosted: Sun Apr 28, 2013 1:01 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Tue Jun 07, 2011 6:47 pm Posts: 174 | | I agree with the other comments. Your initial post show too much neediness and your making yourself too available to her when she hasn't given you much to earn it.
In my opinion you blew it with her when you were parked at her house making out and didn't escalate until she stopped you. Based on what was written my experience tells me she was putting out signals for you to make your move and get physical with her, when you didn't she got turned off and figured your not the kind of guy she wants to "date" and probably got friend zoned.
Her short non-inviting responses evidence this. I would definitely NOT tell her you are "attracted to her" even sarcastically. In fact you should do the opposite and drop hints that your dating other girls (and actually date some other girls). This will make her think there is something wrong with her and that's why you didn't make your move and if your game gets better may spark her to start trying to win your approval.
I'd say largely though this one is friend material for now. Blow her off a few times, treat her like a "buddy" and make off color comments and jokes to her at work and ignore any pointless messages she sends you for at least a few months. Possibly you could revisit at that point. _________________ "Would it be wrong to join sexaholics anonymous to pick-up chicks?" "...yes, and stop eating that baby."
-Psych3r-
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