| Hey everyone!
What I need is an extra brain(s) to objectievly determine what the hell went wrong.
I'll try to make this story as short as possible going into the details that are important to understand the whole situation. Also english is not my native so excuse my mistakes.
Where did she come from?
Long story short I'm a journalist and I met her at work. I'm at my mid 20's and she's in her early 20's (HB7, 8 for me since I like her vibe). I was interviewing her at the university and since she seemed like my kind of girl I asked her for her number (I never do that for my personal use, but something about her really got me). I told her it's for buisness purposes just because she made this strange face and hesitated after I asked. Maybe because I was blunt and right after passing a microphone to my cameraman I've reached for my phone, passed it to her and said "now put your number in here":D I've added her on FB, and after being accepted scoped her profile a bit. I couldn't really say if she had a BF, it seemed like it but if that was the guy I saw on some of the photos he was a total fucking loser (as beta as you can get). Regardless Few days later we started chatting on FB and I've switched to non-buisness topics almost instantly. Was C&F since it's my natural style and that's how I roll without pretending anything. Chat went a bit sexual and we both agreed that we have to go out do some stuff together.
Showing her how I roll…
Few days later I've texted her from work. I was attending this event at the theater and she joined me. It was fun, she was excited because she loved art and stuff around it. I could literally see how she had goose-bumps when I whispered stuff to her ear. Then we parted as I had to continue my work and she went back to uni. We talked on FB for a few next days, she called me from uni and we talked for like 40 mins everytime she did. She told me how excited she was about what I do and how she likes it. I wanted to see her ASAP so few days later we set up a coffe one on one.
First and only one on one meeting so far...
She was super busy studying and working for the uni at the same time and so was I for obvious reasons (time demanding job pfff:(). We don't live in the same city so I went to hers (she moved there to study) and she picked a nice place to have a coffe where we walked. She said she only had like 2 hours for me, because there were two important meetings she had to attend later on. Well she didn't go. We talked for like 5 hours! (her 70% of the time, very talkative and passionate about what she does). I told her to go somewhere else after like 2,5h (couldnt get close to her, en face chairs;() and after secretly paying for what we've ordered we left in search of a nicer place. She wanted something where we could sit close(!) and with a nice vibe but we ended up in some medicore place but with a sofa. So just to make a few points here:
- She wouldnt mention if she had a BF at any point of the conversation
- She was commenting on my sexism and playfull chauvinism
- She said (playfully) how she noticed how sexually im looking at her (no shit lol)
- She seemed like a very responsible person, working every holiday, doing a lot of uni work for free
- She was raised without father in tough conditions (my conclusion)
In one word, she's a hundred times more responsible then I am. Looked like a pure soul to me, and that is exactly what I like, although she must be a demon in bed with her energy. Bah I assumed it's a great GF material and I want to get to know her more. I wouldn't go touchy, though I know I should. I guess I was to affraid to fuck it up to quickly. This exactly happens when I care to much - not to often - but it does and I know I should have acted quicker.
After 5 hours of talking about literally everything I've escorted her to her last meeting and grabbed her because she started complaining it was cold. She broke it, saying im crushing her ribs. It was a tight grip though, so she was right. I said something funny and laughed:D
Trying to set up the next meeting and flakey flake…
So the text messages and phone calls kept going. Again we talked a lot about all kind of stuff etc. I tried to set up a next meeting asap but she seemed to be busy most of the time. Eventually she would say she'll call me next day and she didn't. Happened like twice. Maybe she was so busy I don't know, but I'm busy too and I still find time for my private life. Maybe she was just playing me. About 2 weeks later (we would talk every 2 days or so) she would say that we might meet at saturday (the next day) if she's done with meetings around 8pm and that she'll let me know. Next day she wouldn't contact me so I texted her around 8:30 if she's done with work already. No response. Called her around 10pm - same nothing.
Crossroads...
That's the end of the story so far. I wouldn't call or text her. She didn't call or text either. So there is the question. What's the best thing to do now? It's been a couple of days without any contact now and to be honest I have no idea what happened. She could just let me know she doesn't want to meet, or she can't because something came up.
No clue what to do next, this I've never experienced before.
I'm being hit by few other girls, have some F buddies and stuff but I want more, and it's very hard to find a suitable candidate. A girl that doesn't rly need me and can handle herself. Don't get me wrong I want to be usefull to my girl but I have to know she is capable of being well without me too. I find this attractive. This one has the energy I'm attracted to so I wouldn't rly like to move on just like that. It feels like passing on something rare.
So guys, any usefull advices? Just dont give me "move on" phrase, it's obvious I'll do that when all the options are over.
Now, thank you for reading and hit me with your best advices:)
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