| I don't mean to cut you off but that's a lot to cram into one post. I could recommend videos to watch, books to read, etc but the best way to improve is to go out and focus on confidence, it rarely matters what you actually say. You can sometimes end up being too much in your own head, thinking 'oh shit I didn't drop a DHV then' or 'I'd better give her an IOD now' bla bla...
But if you do want a few little pointers I'll do my best;
opener - hello. Honestly, this is often the best way. It's better than any canned line as women can often see straight through those. There are more convoluted situational openers, such as splitting two girls up at a bar, seemingly by accident, then apologising before going on to stack (credit to RSD for that one)
Introduce yourself - why? You don't need to introduce yourself. Your name and identity is personal valuable information and she hasn't earned it from the get-go. Give her your name when she asks for it and when you're building some rapport
talk with/without DHVs or negs - I don't really use these. DHVs can seem too contrived so use these carefully. And I suppose I do neg, but just focus on being playful in general
Kino - make touching feel natural. This is key. Google kino escalation ladder, I can't remember who it's by but it's an interesting read. Basically, touch them for brief amounts of time, gradually build the sexual touching, but it's important to be push and pull. You can even come on strong, pull them away to a wall or something, but then let go and change to being completely hands-off. Keep it hot and cold and they'll stay interested.
Good luck amigo!
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