Spacebar here with a general two-part question.

I recently told my best/ truly trusting friend about my decision to go into PUA.
He responded sort of confused.. when I explained my motivations/aspirations he was somewhat unenthusiastic.
The problem is this: he wants to too, but lacks any motivation - his mindset is that of AFC. He will find someone eventually. I want to take this journey with him, its always great to have a trustworthy wing man, especially when we have been friends long enough to read each others body language.

How can I bring him into this world like he wants, but at the same time share everything I am learning? I started a blog. the Stylelife challenge and I'm trying to become more involved myself.

Second of all: Starting an exciting social life, trying new things. This is going to be a shock and awe for the people I do know. I want to change my dress and appearance but how should I start? Do I just ignore what anyone says about a change in my appearance?

PS: good tips for good dress? anyone?

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you can take a horse to the river but you cant make it drink, he needs to want it bad enough to motivate himself he needs to have a do or die mentality

watch Good Will Hunting the guy looks messy is poor and gets the girl from harvard and AMOGs the rich guy aslong as your game is good enough looks and clothes dont matter still they are good for external game ... look up about peacocking if all goes wrong just look at a manacin in a store and buy the whole outfit as for genral apprance just look smart freshly shaved and a clean hair cut with some clean casual clothes and thats pretty much it dont smell bad dont have bad breath and focus on game!

Thanks for the reply, I suppose you are right. He has to come to his own realization if its his goal or not.
As for me, I wouldn't say peacock but I wanted to get new glasses my age (I refuse to wear them now.. not so good if you have poor vision) I wear khahkis and nice shirts but I just want to step it up a notch to reflect my change of view on my confidence and inner game. I really like wearing ties.. not sure why. But it makes me feel classy and alpha. I think I'm just gonna say screw it and do what I like and let that shine through as my own confidence. Thanks man

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“Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.”