Apologies if this is in the wrong forum, though it is internet-dating related, it's about my experiences during the meet. I have been doing online sarging for a while to supplement the daygame, and some sites are a goldmine. I have honed my skills, and have a success rate of around 80% after the initial meet. Most of them are same-night lays. My problem is a little bit of one-itis, so forgive me: a woman who I have chatted with for quite some time and who I have managed to seduce over the phone (close to getting an invite to her house at 2am one morning). She is completely wild, and the attraction is just something else.

I told her to meet me one evening, and we'd get a hotel room - she arrived at the hotel, but I didn't. Something came up at the last minute. I managed to retrieve the situation from the abyss by coming up with a bullshit excuse, and getting her wet again. We arranged to meet again. I only meet internet dates in the evening (my success rate for afternoon meets is low - too much like an interview. Daytime and an afternoon "lunch" meet is less condusive to romance and sexuality). Unfortunately for the second attempt at a meeting she wanted to meet in the afternoon, at a coffee shop, for an hour. This was bad news: the timescale, location, and inability to jump to another location (ie: a bed) was a serious disadvantage.

I agreed to meet her. 60 minutes, no room for any serious escalation, and then the text afterwards (as I predicted) reading: "lovely date, but there may be no chemistry unfortunately".

Is there any way to rescue this considering the sexual chemistry before the meet was sky-high, or is it just a completely lost cause? Also, for future reference, I would just like to know the best way of dealing with this type of comment. I encounter this comment a lot during the daytime. Evening meets? Forget about it - I'm in their bed within a few hours.