Hi folks!

I met this girl. I honestly fell for her pretty quick. She was very tough at first and saying she isn't looking for anything serious and kept me distant but close enough to keep me wanting more. Lately she has become extremely close and even hinting at a relationship. She says she is falling for me fast and it scares her that she feels like this. We talk on the phone for hours a day and our communication seems to be pretty good.

There is one thing that throws me off. It's like there are two sides to her. One night she will be telling me XXX-rated explicit things she wants me to do to her and things she wants to do to me. Then the next day she acts like we never talked like that and says that we are only going to be making out the next time we see eachother. She initiates the sexual conversations everytime. Sometimes she will even say she doesn't like that we talk about sex so much because she doesn't want that to be the focus of us. She starts those conversations! We currently live long distance from eachother and will until about 2 months. We planned for me to fly there next weekend to see her. She's all about it. She asked me where I’m staying. I asked her if she is staying with me or staying at home and she said probably option 2, at home. I’m confused because all the dirty and explicit talk. She tells me everyday how she wishes she was laying next to me and now that it's a reality she is acting like she isn't going to.

I want to know what your opinions are of what she is thinking. I am guessing maybe she plans on sleeping with me and even staying with me but is testing me? I'm guessing it's to see if I get mad that she isn't staying with me which would let her know I only want to sleep with her. I like her and want things to work but it's frustrating the way we talk so sexual but she wants me to think nothing is going to happen at all.

Are you in a sexual mood every moment? Moods are transient as are feelings and thoughts, welcome to humanity. Accept this and life will be easier.