Hi All, I came out of a two year relationship not so long ago, and it seemed like there was no way of getting it back so became the route of being just friends figured i could hang out use her as a little pre-selection if nothing else
This weekend just gone though things seems to have changed, she came out with a few of my mates on saturday, didnt really act any different than just friends i raised the kino a little "she is still a women after all" just little touches as we are looking around shops etc...she ask my mate if he thought it was weird we where still mates which i dunno what that means any advice there????
she later found out i was going into town that night basically on the pull with a mate and said im going to the same club can you give me a lift there and back, i said sure not a problem ....
got to the club she went her way me and my mate went our way...
later that night she appeared outside asking me for a fag when i was chatting to some girl i said yea here go and she left again (by this point im getting fed up of feeling used!!!)
Then while im sat in the corner a blonde on my left and a pink haired girl on my right and my mate with two girls across from me she txts me saying "where are you sat? X" with a kiss first one since we broke up lol....i said to my mate i want out of here now she is fucking me off...so told her "i was with the blonde and pink haired girl in the corner" and before she had a chance to reply went and found her and said, we are going to a house party are you ok on train yes she said and me and my mate girls with us left
i was barely gone half an hour and she was on phone to me " are you still ok to drive" "can you come get me please i dont want to be here anymore and there some weird guys flirting with us etc etc" i hung up feeling pissed off now txt her as nice as i could " im at a party with people go for the train you can be there in 5 minates" she responded with "okay" ...
later that night, the four girls me and my friend had between us heard about a lock in at a local pub we went along made out most of the night drank lots pulled there numbers and they left....
my friend txt my EX (ASSHOLE he is off MY phone) saying "we got a lock in at charlies if u want to stay at mine there is also a free bed if you need somewhere to stay " (doesnt even make sense lol, i then get three replies to which i ignore them all from her saying )
"i have a bed at home
but thank you anyway"
"heading home now, we went to moo moos to escape lol"
"although walking from coop is cold!"
i ignored all of these then next day around 2PM i get
"can i have sams number please?"
I said "which sam"
her: "you cousin X" another kiss WTF!!!
Me: "ill tell him to txt you "
Her: "okay "
me: "what did u need it for (i asked this as he didnt want to txt her without knowing why)
her: "i just relised i dont have it "
that was that till the next day, we had a little random talk about me bumping into her dad while he was drunk she laughed a little that was it ...
later that day my female friend txt her from my phone saying "Do you want come round and watch a movie and smoke some shisha
"
Her: "im staying at Chloes tonight :/ maybe another night
(first wink face and even first nice sounding txt we have had since breaking up)
friend(pretending to be me): Thats cool have a good night let me know about another night
her: will do
and thats it i dunno what is now going through her head before this we hardly spoke and when we did it wasnt even very friendly was more just chatting to a stranger i hardly knew now this ...any advise on how to play it from here????
cause wont lie would love to get her back but thought that boat had sailed so was moving on lol, but now i am unsure????
thank you
CHAT