here is my thougts on some of the stuff i find insane about seduction.
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Read this book, models by mark manson, another member told me about it. Very powerful stuff. I never believed in "magic lines" and this book talks about that, just have geniue convo build/break rapport etc..
Example, woman says she likes beaches, You could be like, omg I hate the beach, get out of here girl. If you keep sucking up to "omg omg I love beach/everything you like I like mentaility". It's no fun to them.
I told two girls I can't talk to them anymore because you like x, and I got them both to talk longer/convo, plus one texted me later about other things.
Insane how this stuff works.
i have met way too many people that get togheter like this... eventually they even marry...
they pretend they don't like each other for months or even years
in my eyes this is a gigantic waste of time on both parts.
i think i understand a bit where
InvictusTwo is coming from
I don´t like to pretend lack of interest and what i will try to personally experiment is just going to be at the level of NLP and bodylanguaje.
many men who are succesful at seducing women "naturally" often in my country are said to be "good talkers"
it think unconciously they talk hypnotically , combine it with decent looks and an attitude that pretty much any woman will do and you get a high succes rate.
THE true challenge in my eyes is this - how the hell do you get the girl you want using
truth
or at least a higher percentage of truth.
in some cases why go trough another 10 20 30 women that you really don't wanted nor really fully enjoyed to eventually (in some cases) end up wih the intended one.
I think that it comes down to this, a woman that sees a guy bend over for her thinks he is way too easy -
something might be wrong with him to be so needy, why focus on me when there are so many others that are better than me. (in the case of low self steem gals) he must be desperate and i´m his last chance.
I´ll go for this alpha guy, he can have any woman but i will be special to him.
and in the case of girls with high self steem is that no man is good enough for them and wait for Mr right.
in the way they make many , many mistakes, most common - they will try and change an alpha in to a faithful loyal man.
And me as a weird weird man, i think pretty much similar...
if a beautiful woman comes up to me at a club, i feel very suspicios. Why the hell would she have me ?
she might have an STD, (in my country) she is part of a kidnapping ring, or definetely a 1 night slut.
problem is , women i want are beautiful, but are attracted to the alpha males. Or the guys that "seem to be alphas" or settle for the illusion of stability
I'm not an alpha male, alphas are sociable and leaders and mostly physically fit.
i'm not beta neither, since i'm not a follower, physically weak and comforming.
if we think in terms of a wolf pack - i'm like the lone wolf, and i look forward to have a pack of my own.
so , like the "alpha female" i reject betas & want to change an alpha to a beta because let´s face it , a lone she-wolf is just as rare.