Alright guys, I'm new to using PUA forums, but I have studied 'Game' for a while and have enjoyed some success out of it, however I definitely feel rusty as I've had my eye off the ball the last year and a half due to a couple of serious girlfriends. I know my skills lack the most, and I think it's in the most common area, opening/approaching. Once i'm in conversation I'm away and I've got plenty of routines and cool stories to entertain, and once I've secured a date things tend to go really well, so I suppose I'm a little over half way there...ish.
I live in Sheffield (UK), I'm 24 and I got into Game due to not being completely satisfied with how many women I was getting intimate with and being screwed over in a few relationships, and I put that down to being to soft with girls. I've slept with around 40 girls, but I constantly get told that due to the way I look/dress/act and my character that I should be doing way better for myself. And that's event the case when I go on dates with girls, they always say they think I'm a player, so I can obviously give that impression when I'm in my comfort zone, but not particularly when I'm out of it. And that brings me to my goals, I want to have more actual confidence, not just be able to put on a good act and always be portraying a bravado that I know is me playing up a bit. I want to pass my driving test, and in turn use that to get myself a better job, potentially in sales, however I thoroughly enjoy comedy and writing, and with more self confidence I want to a do something in that industry as well.
My key features (ones that girls mainly pick up on) are that I'm in good shape (I play football/soccer for 2 teams playing 4 times a week, and go gym fairly regularly), I dress well, I'm funny, I'm interesting (as you get to know me you'll find out I've traveled and got some crazy ass stories). I wouldn't say I'm bad looking at all, I'm well groomed but I know there's guys out there that are naturally better looking than me. My personality is definitely my key attraction, so I need to learn to utilize that.
Now the reason why I've decided to start pursuing my game again, is that similar story that I lost the love of my life, I didn't do anything wrong, it just didn't work out when she moved back home after university, and I wouldn't quit one of my football teams so I could see more of her at weekends. It sucked, I had a bit of a breakdown, but that said, it did make me realize that whilst I am young I shouldn't just be looking to settle down. I have a good relationship with my ex, we're not friends but we give little bits of contact from time to time, just see how each other are. I want to get one thing straight, I'm not looking to win her back, lifes about moving forward and when you make change you should always try to improve, going back to her would be exactly what it says....going back.
Since then I was going out with a girl from my work, but stupidly sent her a text meant for someone else and that fell apart at the 2 month stage. Which bring us to NOW. Please read the passage below, and if you can advise on how to deal with this, by all means do cus I'm stumped.
Be awesome to here from you guys, I'm here to learn and be taught. Big love. Seric

Anyway, here's the deal. I picked up a girl on a bus a few weeks back, she was 19, cute, slim, and had braces (I now what you're thinking, but seriously, she's hot, this was only a minor, or you could say 'temporary' blip). I just got chatting to her, and we ended up getting off at the same stop so we exchanged names and I inevitably went and found her on facebook, added her, of which she responded with a message and the rest is history.
I met her for drink last weekend and it went really well, I've never really had a bad date as I'm confident with my communication skills, and I know how to interest someone with conversation. I ran 'the cube' on her which she loved and then proceeded to seduce her by telling what I would do to her in the bedroom. This was in response to her telling me she had only slept with 3 men, 2 of which were long term BF's and the other was a one night stand which she said she hated. I really laid it on thick and she was literally quivering at her legs an biting her lip, I managed to get her back to my place, introduced her to my housemates then took her upstairs. I gave her massage and then pounced on her, she was getting really into it until her Mum rang and she had to lie and say she was still in the pub. This sort of killed the mood, so I called her a cab and she went home.
Second date again went really well, however I picked up that she'd come out of a relationship recently and had some issues, these turned out to be that she was on anti depressants and that she had cut herself :/ Call me weird, but I kinda like being the knight in shining armour so I kinda liked this situation. She went on to explain that she's definitely not looking for a relationship yet, but enjoys what we're doing but wants to go slow. I ran the 'bite' routine on her, and we enjoyed biting each other for a bit then I walked her home, kiss closed her and said good night. Since then we've been sending flirty messages, and she seemed keen, I asked her if she wanted to go out for dinner Friday but she'd been out with her Dad for her Bday all day, she apologised and suggested maybe next weekend?
The following night I met her and her friends out for her birthday, with some of my friends. Now I made sure I didn't seem desperate, I didn't stick with her all night, I met her in 1 bar, then left with my friends and met her at a club later. We were all over each other all night in the club and everything seemed sweet. Now here is my fatal error. As I was leaving I saw her dancing with another guy, so rather than just leave I went over, grabbed her and said something along the lines of "what you doing, I'm not putting up with shit like this" I can't actually remember as I was hammered (i know, mistake) and she'd sent me some messages I saw when I got in asking me why I had done that and what was my problem. I had jus responded trying to get her round and she ignored me.
Then next day, I messaged her on FB (thats what we always use as she never has credit) no response so in the afternoon I called her to explain things, and then I just text her. I'd said I was sorry, and that I didn't like the fact she seemed close with another guy after being with me all night, and said I'm sorry for anything bad I said, and that I'd make it up to her. She responded, saying it ok, it was just stupid and she was really drunk, then said she can kinda do what she likes, no offence but was nice to see you. I messaged back saying I know she can do what she wants, and that im not offended. And her final response to me was that shes not in the best place right now (anti depressants remember) and doesn't need anyone elses shit right now. But then went on to say it was fun and her friends liked me.
I responded to that saying not to worry and that I won't be giving her any of my shit as I wouldnt want to stress her out, and that I'm happy just doing what we've been doing. I've yet to hear anything back, although I've not contacted her again as I thought I'd let things settle for a bit. I'll be honest, I wanna bang this girl, and she seemed like she'd be up for some new things so it would have been a sweet casual thing to have going on, So anybody got any advice on how to play this? As at the moment, all I'm thinking is leave it till the weekend then send a cheeky message, asking how she is, and whether she fancies going out for a drink at the weekend?

Seric