I am asking for help from guys in the community today. I am well and truly stuck.

Please see my latest post in my field report:

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Keep going man, it seems like your doing the right kinda of thing generally. But now your skills at cold approach and socializing are decent follow these rules:

"If I am not escalating, I am not doing anything", "No matter what happens when I escalate I will always be more attractive than when I didn't"-(i.e by showing the confidence to escalate, you are only illustrating an attractive quality).

What you need to do is practice and practice making yourself attempt to pull the trigger. Much like game to begin with, it will feel tricky at first but soon it will be second nature.

Try next time you are being physical or in a good set. Look at eyes lips get close and pull her in. Or even say 'I want to kiss you then go for it!

It may not work to begin with as you build skills/confidence but once you can do it you will be a machine.

Good luck

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The encouragement means a lot man. The fact that this is a difficult task for me is weighing heavily upon my mind, and it is taking the enthusiasm and energy out of me. However, your post has lifted my spirits dude. I understand what you're saying. It's very slowly digesting into my mind.

It's so alien for me that it feels inappropriate. I'm breaking it down though. I will force myself to keep it on my mind, I think if I can get the mind set shift down I can begin to make progress. This is the first time I've had to actually actively get other guys to support me though. I really really want to change! Second month in the game.

Please do give advice and stories etc where you can. Stories really help me personally. If you can drill this into me you are actually going to change my life, this is literally my biggest barrier, nothing has been as tough as this. Got public speaking down, debating, instruments, whatever. This one is just a killer.

Thanks again!

Peace

This should be in the beginners questions section or the sticking point section. Not trying to be mean but this isn't something for the PUA Lounge.

Peace and Love,

Vic

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Sure. No problem. Asked for someone to move it.

...After a tea spoon of medicine, how about some sugar? Lend a novice some advice.

I understand exactly what you mean.

What I did I realized I was so poor at escalating and getting the kiss, so I did an escalation blog where it was all that mattered. It's in my sig, give it a read you'll find it useful, I'd only kissed 2 girls before it started. It's been a year since and my results just skyrocketed like crazy and once I got a groove just stopped posting in it.

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"Once you learn to feel the fear and do it anyway, the outcomes will come."- 60yoc

My journal of adventures and escalation: time-to-go-for-the-kills-escalation-blo ... highlight=