So, I've been seeing this chick, who I have been having great sex with. I'm pretty busy with business, so initial started out of convenience for me, as she is really into me.

However, we are in the same circle of friends, which include lots of females, who suggested to her that I'm a player, and that I get with and talk with other women regularly. One time I grabbed a number at a party of a hot chick, and now her friends have been slatting me ever since.

She since then told me that 'She wants to stop seeing each other now, because it will go to far, and she will like me too much and she knows I won't commit. And that she is looking like an idiot because how I treat her'.

I said it was too early for me to make big decisions about the future, and that I feel her friends are affecting her thinking too much. On a side-note, I'm a little bit pissed out our circle of friends for acting jealous, and telling her what they think of me - ultimate cock block.

Since then, she has been going out with her friends, posting pictures on FB of her amazing times, new haircut etc.

So...

Our circle of friends are meeting for one of our friends birthday for dinner in a couple of days and she will be there. Do I go, and how do I act if I do go?

Also... I am having a big party at my new flat on Saturday too - she will be there, but also alongside lots of other girls I've invited. What is the best way to harness this situation too.

what i concluded is that you are being cocky funny with her all the time which makes the attraction high but also increased the risk of her being overneged.another thing is that she also knows that you want her for sex ..now from my experience i found that when a girl says something then there is a truth behind it..so when she says she wants commitment , she meant it.and she is appearing like a bitch infront of her friends..so i think you must go see her and be polite to her and if she didnt talk to you , its ok dont talk but put in your mind that its over with her...