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PostPosted: Tue Jan 01, 2013 2:01 pm 
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Hey! I just moved to a new city, so I've been going out on my own lately, which has been good fun, but one problem I have when trying to pick up chicks, is that all the hot girls chill in big groups and I don't really know a good way to approach this kind of a situation. Any tips guys?


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PostPosted: Wed Jan 02, 2013 12:47 am 
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2 solutions for you.
1-do daygame.
2-be honest and say exactly how you fell to the one you like and by failling over and over and over. you will get good.

if you are looking for the magic bullet, you find it, its call practice.

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 02, 2013 11:03 am 
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Nope, not looing for the "magic bullet" as i realize every girl is different and every situation is different so there is nothing I can say for guaranteed success. But I think we can all agree that approaching groups of girls vs. lone girls is a hell of a lot more difficult, and it just so happens hot girls almost ALWAYS chill in groups like that. Word, ill be getting a ton of practise.. I'm here for the next 6 months and I don't really know anyone so ill be going out on my own a lot. And I'm actually pretty okay with that, had a ton of fun these last couple days going to things on my own (something id never do at home with all my friends) and I've met a ton of cool people. But ya if anyone has tips on how to game groups, spill :) Or stories or anything.


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PostPosted: Wed Jan 02, 2013 11:36 am 
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Why are you going out alone? I don’t have anything against it but maybe if you are starting or don’t have much experience you should go out with a friend or someone who can help you out talking to groups. In case you still want to do it on your own , it pretty much depends on you. If you are a guy who is very direct and arrogant you can just approach to the girl you like and tell her “ I’m loving the shoes” or “ I’m loving the dress” I usually say that and girls love it, then you just start talking to them and very important talk to her friends and finally isolate.
If you are not the direct type, this is something that happened last month. Went out with my friend and while we were talking – we are in a bar- I saw a group of girls who were standing next to us. One of the girls in the group was drinking a beer – I was drinking the same beer and for some reason that beer tasted quite weird- and when I saw her drinking the beer and making a weird face after drinking it I said “ Yes, it taste really bad” there you have it. Started talking to her and after 5 minutes her whole group was talking to us.

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 02, 2013 11:56 am 
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thx for the reply, i just moved to a new city and i don't know anyone. Im fairly good at making friends though so I'm not too worried about having to go to events and what not alone for the time being. And its defiantly better alone than a group of guys. hmm but yes a wingman could be nice lol.


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PostPosted: Wed Jan 02, 2013 12:33 pm 
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Explode into the set. High energy. Open them, maybe by using an opinion opener, that way you can ask the first three or four girls around you what they think about it. If you think you can maintain that high energy and continue to work the entire set, then by all means do so. Ignore the target, freeze her out, neg her, whatever. But you might be more comfortable with opening the set, then quickly zeroing in on your target and isolate her. Now keep in mind that isolating her doesn't necessarily mean taking her to the patio or back by the bathrooms. If you start engaging her one on one and ignore the rest of the set, the other girls will usually go back to talking amongst themselves while you converse with the target.

Another trick I learned from Gambler is to walk up and ask your target "How have you been?" This indicates that you already know her, so all her friends will think its an old friend of hers and they'll leave you two alone while you talk. I'd also recommend bouncing out of the set after you establish some rapport with your target (i.e. break rapport) and either go open another set or go back to a safety set you already opened earlier. Then after some time has passed return to your target and go for your close. That helps to give you social validation, keeps you from seeming clingy, and makes her want to chase you.

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I've done this alot of time..
I just come in with high energy, playful and with a big smile and say something like:
You guys look like a lot of fun, i'll hang out a bit..
or Why are X town girls so friendly
or Is it true what they say about X town girls.

And never but i mean NEVER focus your attention only on one girl..always engage the whole group, talk with everybody, have fun and later on you can pick out a girl which you like and seems interested and engage her more than the others and then lead her to isolation..for example invite her to come and meet your friends..
That has worked bunch of times, some girls even took me to isolation.

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