I have this problem. There is this blogger girl that I am really into. Now the thing is i really want to meat her, the only problem is that I can't open. My only shot would be facebook but the problem is that with her being a blogger she has 5000 friends on facebook, which means i can't add her. Now i need to say something to get her attention, stand out of the crowd. The rest I can handle. I just need something to get her attention so that she would engage in a conversation with me.

Ps. She blogs about fashion and stuff.

What do you mean you can't open her?

I mean I only have a shot on fb... The problem here is that i can't add her as a friend because she already has to many so i need to say something really clever so i would stand out from al those other people messaging her so that she is interested in replying.

How come you only have shot on facebook? Man I've been there, done that a couple of times and the girl never responded.Don't make it hard for yourself man.I used to think the same. It's much more easier to open a girl in real life.And you said it she has more than 5000 friends so what are the odds if she's gonna remember you even if you say something funny.So try and talk to her if you see her man. I guess you don't wanna become a Keyboard Jockey .

Why not ask her about fashion tips for men? If that's what she's interested about. Look for her weakness or something she'll be willing to talk about. It's hard to beat up 5,000 friends and stand out. You need to do something that would remind her of you.

Listen - your problem is you have to make it safe to fail. It sounds like failure would be really bad for you here, which means you're hanging all your hopes on this one girl.

If you have what PUAs call oneitis, I can recommend only one solution to it -- whatever strategies you come up with have a good chance of failure, so HAVE YOUR FRIEND DO IT.

That's right. Your friend. He should try to get her talking to him and if it works he cam try to get her out and inteoduce her to you.

As someone who's hung up on a particular girl this is the only way you can make it safe to fail. If she rejects your friend then you can get feedback about her and she wont trace it to you. Maybe you'll even realize this is not the kind of girl you want.

But if you try something yourself and it doesnt lead anywhere, you'll either be devastated or you wont stop, and become annoying to her and kill it.

Either way better to have your friends try whatever you were gonna try, and introduce you later if it succeeds. Even a blogger girl with 5000 friends takes warm introductions!

Goodluck
GregMozart