Okay, I've been dating a girl for a little over a year now. Prior to her I was fresh out of a marriage (long ass story but I walked out of it cause the thing was just like beating a dead horse and I was sick of it). This girl is amazing, I'd have to say that she gets male attention because she is freaking gorgeous beyond belief. Recently (about a month ago) I noticed that her texting me in the morning kind of stopped for the most part (she used to text "Good morning pumpkin" and other things) and also she tends to see my texts to her about either small questions or just asking her how her day is going and ends up not responding but I later find out she was on her phone on facebook or whatever. I don't expect her to respond immediately at all, nor do I need her to be available consistently but the trend flip kinda red flagged me so I brought it up to her (I know you guys may say it's a sign of weakness but I'm very direct). I asked her if there was a reason why she seemed as if she is ignoring my texts and texting me less now all of the sudden and she stated that she isn't ignoring me but she knows that she will see me later that day so she doesn't see the big deal about responding anymore.

I'm okay with this, but part of me feels almost as if she is just losing some interest. I know we see each other every day almost now (going to move in together in a month) and all but I still feel like she is being disrespectful about seeing my texts and just ignoring them if I ask her a question/say I love you etc. etc.

Before I get blasted about not having self-esteem or whatever, I have dealt with having bad confidence and it still haunts me to this day and I'm lost at how to get it fully. I've lost 80lbs over the past year and a half and still have the feeling of being that fat kid I guess. After we talked about it I told her I wasn't trying to sound needy but rather wanted to know if she was feeling like she was losing interest in the relationship or not. She stated she understood and still has interest but then we discussed the neediness and she said she thinks I'm needy and a bit insecure.... This was a huge blow to me. After saying it she said "Well, actually I don't think your too much of either but we just have different methods of communicating now I guess". The problem is, I worry I'm being too needy now. How would someone go about recovering from this? I will admit that we have had our issues and I have shown some insecurity because of her lying to me about a bunch of stuff but we ended up working it out, leaving me a little insecure and worried that maybe she would run to another guy if given the opportunity. (This is an irrational fear that developed from my own insecurity and believing she was too good for me and knowing she has many other options).

Anyone able to lend some advice? =/