• Hi...feel odd friend requesting a stranger...but my husband (her husbands name here) is a friend? He says you are a hypnotist? Sorry if I have made a mistake, (her name here) • October 26 3:00am (her name here) .? • October 26 7:08pm (my name here) Have to say, everyones a stranger until you've had the pleasure the meet or "talk." Yes, you're correct as to being friends with (her husbands name here). Not sure how much he told you about myself and all the things (her husbands name here) has taught me too but he was telling me that you could use some insight or have questions to ask. He was brief the last time I spoke to him so here I am. We both have lives, and I will just make a quick note to say that I am not on here on a daily basis but since (her husbands name here) wanted me to help somehow I'll log in on a bit more frequent basis. You messaged me at 3:00 AM... You are either really busy during the day and have time during the night to just lay in bed with your laptop searching on the internet or..it's time zone differences. San Fransisco...in NJ here...explains it. Well...here I am (her name here), no you haven't made a mistake as to whom you've contacted. ~(my name here) Hope its going to be nice to have spoken to you. • October 27 8:17am (her name here) Hi (my name here), Time zone was maybe part of it but i am a bad sleeper as well. Curious about your name, i like it. Its origins? So are you a hypnotist? What are its dangers? If i let myself go under more often, could something bad happen to me? I must confess that i have been under more times than (her husbands name here) is aware. Nothing bad about it, just embarrassed that i almost feel addicted to it. Just waking up, feeling so full and satisfied and refreshed is amazing. In an hour session, its like i slept for ten. Sorry for being a little weird, (her name here) • October 27 2:55pm (my name here) Curiosity. Was it curiosity that somehow allowed you to let go and have something psychologically tried on you? Or were these times "accidental?" It is good to know if the first time you felt something happen was "okay" to happen to begin with. Afterwards...if I give you 1 Dollar or 1 Million you would be reluctant to take it, and use it and do what you want with it. But then I come around offering more. Reluctant you'll probably be again. Then I come by again, and you take it reluctantly. But then you, afterwards, instead come to me and ask for more. And you feel reluctant but you take it. Then once again, you come again and ask for more and now you JUST take it. And take more, and well you continue. That is how this works. It is what I don't like it being called, "a drug." It is not the best to begin with, but then it becomes bigger. It becomes a part of you until you don't want to give up the feelings it instilled within you. That is your addiction. It is an "easy" way to get what you want, to get what you need. It lets you feel completely free, to just get out there without a worry and instead intense energy. You said you are sorry for being a little weird...If you are weird, then I am even weirder because I do things to people, and know how this all works. That line right there is interesting. There are 2 kinds of woman that most people don't recognize. In each woman there are 2. The natural woman and the culturally programmed woman. The culturally programmed woman is the one with all the rules and all the roles. All the restrictions, constrictions, the should nots, shoulds and donts. That is the woman you were right at that moment where you wrote that line "Sorry for being a little weird". Then the natural woman. That is the one hiding your most exciting memories, and holds amazing possibilities. That is the woman that tried going under, or was sent under accidentally. That is the woman that wrote every other line in your message. The above exists for both sexes. There is a special place in everyone. And everyone has something they lack. Words, phrases, breathing slowly and such all bring a state. That state depends on the speaker. An almost complete transformation takes place, and you start blossoming way beyond what you ever even thought possible. Everyone has something they are waiting for and longing for... But most people don't understand that all of this is within you. And so they turn to other things. To this "drug." You have been "under" more times than another is aware. Let us say that I just laughed. You reminded me of what people think of hypnotists. People think they can control a person, and make them do anything they want. That is not necessarily the case. It's dangers...There are VERY VERY few dangers. You would most likely not ask the question unless you truly believed it would be dangerous Can a hypnotist make you murder someone? Or can they make you do something you do not want to do? Can they make you spill the beans? Tell me...when you were "under," and after it, do you remember being able to hear the words the hypnotist said? When you are "under" people don't know that what really happens is that the person just becomes completely aware and soo relaxed to the point that it enables people to experience thoughts and images as if they were real. Have you heard of Buddhists or Monks (not sure which) that went to the artic in their robes and sat down (in negative (who knows what degrees)). What they did was great! They concentrated, and relaxed (by meditating), that they increased their body temperature to an extent that literally made the snow and ice they were sitting on melt! If you go under...okay. But once the voice starts to fade, you will come back. If someone was to hypnotise you and then stop, depending on how deep he or she has gotten, you will come back minutes later. The only time something bad is going to happen, is when you allow it to happen. People don't like this answer, but it's the truth. Just like how this works. If you want to be hypnotized you will be. If you don't, you will not be. It's the same. If you want to feel refreshed, and energized, you will be, but if you do not, you will not. I have to ask, where do you go to be "put under" as you put it? Professional? Or a random person you met on a boardwalk somewhere? A friend? People feel more secure in "professional" looking places, as opposed to a random persons loft. It makes the you more receptive to being in a trance. There is nothing to worry about when it comes to being in a trance. A state. The only danger is that if there is something within you that wants to do something, then as stated, the "natural woman" will come out. And she will act on it because you will be completely content and at peace, without worries. Without worries...without the shouldn'ts and can'ts. It is not weird to want to be at peace, content, refreshed, new, excited, special, unique, important, worry free or in love...to act on the "natural womans" feelings, and thoughts...most people stay within the culturally programmed state. Hope this helps a bit........ I must say it is "best" to feel how you feel at all times! That is what we really want. We don't want a session to last 1 hour, we want a session to be a lifetime. Wouldn't it be great if you can just let go of everything and be within the moment, right this moment, the next moment, the next hour, the next day? Forever? To be satisfied, and full at all times? Life...is thinking in this moment, being in this moment and feeling in this moment, then I think you can be what you want to be, when you want to be it. My name...I like too haha. There are soo many ways a person can say your name, some people break it apart, and others put it together. Some people say it as you say it, and then there are others. Rare people, understand that to the person who bears a name, that sound of their name is the best sound of all. I came across 1 person. She was Albanian, just like myself. And said my name like no one else has said it. Really made me pay attention to another persons name because it showed how important it was to people. The name...(my name here), was first used by an Albanian King, (or Illyrian or Macedonian King (Alexander's ancestors)...not sure which exactly since the current countries of Albania, Macedonia and Kosovo have been broken up soo many times and soo put together soo many times that we are actually the same people whether or not people like it). Besides that little history lesson I can't say anything else about it, as dumb as this may sound. Your name...(her name here). I told you a little about mine, now your turn ~(my name here) Yes my replies are confusing but you seem smart enough to understand... • October 30 1:02am (her name here) Sorry that it has taken me a while to respond. You wrote such a wonderful note that i didnt want to be flip in my reply. My first session was in a stage show, i got chosen from the audience 1:04am (her name here) I forgot my name, couldnt lift my arm, acted like i was a child, danced. Fun, but i loved it. The second time was at a friends birthday party, where they hypnotist. He got more risque...i partially stripped, danced sexy and simulated a sexual act. People liked it but it definitely hurt my relationships in that group. 1:06am (her name here) So there was someone at that party who later approached me and said he wanted try hypnosis with me. Said he always had an interets. He is very sweet and shy and i wanted to, so we have been meeting. Sessions are about an hour and i just pass out and sleep deeply. I awake feeling like i just hibernated for the hour, it feels amazing. I worry he will get bored but he seems to like having the ability to create the effect. He is really good and last session he actually had a friend there as well. Love the story behind your name! Mine isnt so exciting. Grandmas first name was (her name here) and (her name here) was my stepdad. Thank you so much for your kind note, (her name here) • November 5 6:02pm (her name here) • November 6 2:19am (her name here) Hope to catch you online someday • November 10 8:04pm (my name here) To be flip in your reply...haha. Okay. I live in NJ...had hurricane sandy hit the state 2 weeks ago...didn't receive power or internet until now. So here's the late reply to you. Would it be okay if I asked why you thought the note was wonderful? I do not mean any disrespect, or anything of that notion, but I get people to say things I say to them in person or online are "wonderful" and I always ask why they think so and find there are soo many things that can catch a persons attention or interest. It would not be a problem... In a stage show? Wow, that's pretty funny. I bet you went up there being a bit reluctant to this working and then it just showed and proved to you that it does work. Couldn't lift an arm okay...like a child. That is what I like from all of this. I think it's soo funny how you can get a person to feel soo free to step down from their age and become just...playful, and content with life. Happy to the extent that you wouldn't know why and then to just...play like a child does with their hands when their hands are the only thing they could hold. You probably laughed a lot, and about probably nothing Danced...a slow dance? or club-like dancing? Think both would be amusing to watch, just imagine yourself getting up on a stage and dancing right now...would you do it? Would you just get up and do what you did? Most people wouldn't, it's a shame, but when you can do this without hypnotism that is life and freedom to take charge of your life and lead yourself beyond the clouds, on a white-winged-flying horse across the stars and over lakes with chrysanthemums around the side. Have you ever had someone give you the moon? You know, the bright white light during the clear winter sky? Where you can see only 1 great cloud breezing by, right before your eyes? That I bet you would love. To hold what no one else can ever give you again because there is only 1 of it out there. (feel free to ask if what I say doesn't make sense, most of what I say has double if not tripe meanings, its just the way I think, and presume whom I talk to knows what I'm trying to say) Let me say this about parties. People are there to have fun. It may seem too simple of an answer but the truth is exactly that. Tell me...who wouldn't want to be able to just do what the natural girl within them wants to do, or experience? What you did...partially stripping down, dancing in a way others could probably only dream of dancing in public, and then simulating an act while first having partially stripped and danced sexy, others could only dream of doing "consciously..." yes you had some help but... In this place, there are always people who will like what you do. Then there will always be another person who may not like what you do. And at the party, you probably did what many people liked, but then you also did what many people will never experience, and will never be able to do on their own. I call this "envy" even though even this word isn't that great...jealousy?...not sure. Regardless..."hurt your relationships in that group." Is that something you want to try to fix- thus the reason you brought it up? I'm not sure who your relationship was lowered with but I think all things happen for a reason. And then all things can change for a reason. If you want a relationship with someone you must change. People wish they were the most popular person in the world, but they don't change what they do in order to become the most popular. People want to have many friends but they don't change what they do to get more. People want to own a mansion and live on a paradise island but they do not change what they do. You want a great love life? Then you must change what you do. You want a million dollars? Change. You want x? Change. So...yea those relationships might be gone, but that doesn't mean, you can't change it. Will write more in next message 9:08pm (my name here) He won't get bored I presume. It's as much a learning experience for him as it is any experience for you. He gets whatever it is he wants, and you get to feel better or different in ways others can't really make you feel, because they can't get your attention and lower your conscious thoughts as much as he can. It's always more fun for the hypnotist to have more than 1 person at a time. I like the challenge of trying to bring 2 or more people at different states, but because the hypnotist can do this to others, I find it a bit harder for the hypnotist to be hypnotized : / ...probably the reason I'm trying to figure out a way to be "free" and happy/excited/proud/healthy/fun/smart/everything else I could want at once, "consciously" so that it all, at once, like the flip of a switch would make me all those things but when I want, for as long as I want. Imagine the feeling of hibernating for an hour and then waking up, that amazingness being there every waking moment of your life? That's what I would love. Never being in a down mood, always being naturally high. Always being happy, and every other feeling you would love, at all times. Now I see where your name comes from. (her name here) is interesting and (her name here) comes from your step father. I am sorry to hear that that is the case. But what can the child do to their parents in order to stop breakups. It's a negative subject, it's best to just not think of things you don't like. I will tell you a secret. A secret that many don't know of, and yet cannot follow, which makes sense. You are special. You always were special. Since the day you were born, you were special. In fact you were special from about 9 months before you were born. We are both adults here right? We can talk about sex naturally? We both know for mankinds existence, mankind needs to have sex. We need to have sex, and our brain says you need to have sex, it is evolution or whatever else people may call it that makes sure our species survives. It is programmed deeply inside your mind. People may not act on it, or just do it but the point is it's a desire. A natural arousing urge. So your parents had these urges and acted upon them. Then 375,000,000 peices of your father raced. And you won. You are a winner, you were born a winner and always be a winner because you exist! You made it to the end of the tunnel. That is fine. We are all winners, BUT...the secret is what sets us both apart soooo much that we are different, it sets us apart soo much that we are less than a nanometer apart, if not already touching eachother face to face, cheek to cheek, hand in hand, shoulder to shoulder... So what is the secret that is soo big that when it exists we are still touching eachother? Our thoughts. Our thoughts are the secret. You cannot touch them, you can only "think" them, see them, read them, feel them. But they are soo big (or soooo small) that we could be right on top of eachother and they will still be inbetween us..always existing, and being there. It is your thoughts that create you. It is what makes you, who you are. The person you are. You can think bad thoughts and you will notice that more keep coming. And you can think good thoughts and you will notice more will keep coming. That is the secret. Think good and you will be good. Think of x and you will get x. Beleive you will get x and you will get x. But when you think bad (ie the breakup from your mother and father)..then "bad" will come. One day, if we ever meet, I will buy you a book, called "The Secret" by Rhonda Byrne...so let me get back to your name. ..and we'll stop talking about something that may be "bad" or bring bad feelings. (CAN'T BELIEVE I GOT SOO SIDE TRACKED). Well..(her name here)... Let see...Tell me if I'm wrong about you...And this comes just from the meaning of your name : ) (Tell me if I'm a good analyzer) ...you are a spiritually intense person and can charm? The "S" in your name brings love and new starts into life while hopefully attracking money. You are emotion by nature. You are the creator and promotor of original ideas in business...you are always looking for an opportunity to achieve financial and emotional security? You are a peacemaker? You understand the law of harmoney and desire to balance your life with those around you? You may or may not feel incomplete without someone to share your love, ideals, wealth or work? Fear...you are afraid of being alone? You can be very sensitive and could appear a bit shy and perceptive, especially judging by the way you present yourself in the replies to my messages. You are seeking always, new places, new faces, new changes and new experiences, possibly why you went on that stage. You are welcome by others because of your honesty which makes sense.......and much more "http://www.sevenreflections.com/name-numerology/(her name here)-(her name here)/" That's the link... You didn't honestly think I can come up with the above about your name on my own did you? That site comes up with soo much correct information...especially about my name. And to think you thought your name was that of your grandmother and stepfather Seems there is more to you than others might think. Takes a different perspective to see this. 9:13pm (my name here) Too bad we have to resort to smiley faces online lol. I think it takes away from seeing a persons facial expressions and hearing them speak when talking online...not sure why but it makes talking more interesting. Reading is reading...think it's a lot more fun when you imagine what ppl say to you online as you're reading it...still trying to picture a white-winged-flying horse with you on it soaring through the skies? Guess we're playing hide and seek...you sure you're out of the playful childish state you were in on that stage haha? You catch me first, then I'll catch you later. Someday may be closer or further than we think...our thoughts. I will try to log onto facebook tomorrow nov. 11th at 8 PM (UTC-05:00) Eastern Time (US & Canada) i'm in NJ, if i'm not here from 8-8:30...something came up and I guess I won't be giving you any more hints where to find me hiding...sometimes its more fun to let the seeker walk right by when you're hiding right behind them. ~(my name here) Also...see if you can get a tape recorder or video camera and record yourself when you're under, have the hypnotist leave it on a chair or table. Then feel free to watch yourself, people always think this stuff is funny when they watch what they've done. Feel free to share • November 11 7:50am (her name here) So sorry to missed that meeting time, havent beenn fb in days... • November 11 12:31pm (my name here) You didn't miss the time. 8 PM in NJ would be 5 PM in California. Can chat at 6 PM your time if you like, ( 9PM in NJ). So today at 5 PM your time or 6 PM your time (Nov. 11). • November 12 2:11pm (her name here) Ever do late nights? • November 13 12:46am (my name here) Late night dinners? Late night walks along the shore, holding hands with someone right next to the ocean where only the more lingering waves can reach caressing our feet? late night ... Yes all the time! How did you guess? Late night chit chats...? Thats probably what you meant You... must never sleep lol. I try to keep myself busy, and have been going to bed at 12-2am in the morning for a while now. My calender for late night chats is open on november 6th 2013. We can continue this then Joking aside I can basically fill you in Sunday night?...how about you tell me a time and I will see if we can get together then? • November 14 1:07am (her name here) You are so sweet, sorry that i have been so busy • November 18 1:06am (my name here) Looks like that is the 169th thing we have in common. You're not 5' 11" too are you, with silky long brown hair and ...? Headed to bed it's 1 AM and I'm getting up at 5AM for another day of figuring out how I can run for mayor of my town, if you know anything about how this whole process helps perfect! • November 18 6:48am (her name here) Tday week will be busy for me too. Maybe the week The week after tday might be a good one I do look forward to it • November 27 2:46am (her name here) How do the next few nights look? • November 27 9:42pm (my name here) (her name here) Happy Thanksgiving to you too! Nights are clear enough to see the bright stars, with a 90% chance to see the moon... --- Wednesday night...is clear. Thursday I have things to take care of, Friday night I am going out. So either wednesday or Sunday night which is definately foggy not sure about Saturday yet. --- Wednesday night it is then...don't forget to wear a red blouse so i know its you with a bright yellow (her husbands name here)thansamum in your hair just incase to further validate to me that it is you. And also, bring a smile, but nothing cheesy or sweet like the one in your profile pic (her name here), since you are...a girl that doesnt sleep Wednesday at 11pm I can fill you in for 2 hours then than I need my beauty sleep 10:32pm (her name here) I will hope to be there... 10:39pm (her name here) Ever free daytime? Thursday morning perchance? • November 28 8:01pm (my name here) Thursday...possible maybe at 1 PM my time so that would be 10 AM for you...thats the earliest. I'm out from 8AM--12:00 Noon Thursdays, then gone again from 6PM-9:30 PM usually. 11 PM Wednesday NJ time..hopefully?...Can't expect me to stay awake till 1 -2 AM to talk to you. But I may log in at that time to just check. • November 29 3:14am (her name here) Sorry i missed you again • November 29 6:19am (her name here) Early riser? • November 29 5:53pm (my name here) The way this is going I think you'll be missing me more and more. "Ever do late nights? How do the next few nights look? Ever free daytime...now Early riser?" haha...you're just figuring out more and more about when I'm in my nice warm bed sleeping, when I wake up, when I fall asleep, and you have my entire Thursday schedule. That's funny. You're figuring things out others don't have the pleasure to Early riser, all dependent on the day ahead and night before. I think life is greatest when it's on-the-fly, spontaneous, and not fully planned. But with some planning to keep people in line. Let me see...there is a 3 hour difference in time-zones between you and me. Since you mentioned early riser, I am going to take a guess and say you get up at 6 AM? So that would be 9 AM for me... I wake up at 5-6AM then fall asleep again until 7-8 AM. So let's choose... (in your time) Option A: Is you waking up at 3 AM for me. Or, Option B: Is you waking up at 4 AM for me. And finally Option XYZ is you giving me an outline of what times you are free for the next 7 days and I will just close my eyes and pin the tail on the donkey? Think the last would be best (hah, talk about a way to figure you and your day out in plain sight...I like it.) If all else fails, according to whats going on...I think I'm going to have to buy a plane ticket and visit the Golden Gate Bridge during the summer Always wanted to go to California and see what the place has to truly offer 5:55pm (my name here) Maybe you can find me a tour guide? • Tuesday 3:24am (her name here) That might be best....sorry for beng so difficult • Wednesday 11:39am (her name here) What if i woke at 3am for u? • Wednesday 6:45pm (my name here) That would work perfectly for us, when it comes to scheduling. We are both busy, that is understandable. I know you must be putting aside 3 hours of sleep or so and understand that it must be a huge sacrifice, shows dedication to better yourself. (I should stop analyzing) I have found that being honest is the best technique I can use. Right up front, tell people what you're trying to accomplish and what you're willing to sacrifice to accomplish it...(her name here), you're the kind of person that goes for what they want I see. That is a good quality. How about Friday morning at 3 AM for you, I would say Thursday but I doubt you will read this message in time to respond to it. So at exactly 3 AM Friday your time we'll wait for each other. I think its like...it's like waiting to finally speak to a long lost friend that you haven't really spoken to in ages, a friend that you have meant to speak to for soo long because you wanted to say soo much to them but haven't gotten the chance because you were soo far from this person. But then right now, or I guess this Friday morning, technology brings you closer to the extent where within seconds you can receive replies, and notice that with the touch of a few buttons that persons there. I have to say I love that feeling. That feeling you get where you are just waiting and then just thinking of meeting someone, your heart starts to beat faster and then being a minute closer to meeting someone new, you're literally shaking because you've waited soo long to talk but out of the blue forget the past and are in the now. In that one moment. Reminds me of the anticipation created when I'm meeting someone for coffee to just lay back and relax and have a normal conversation with that person. We'll chat Friday morning then, at 3 AM your time. I'll have a glass of something warm and sweet, and you can have...a strong cup of coffee, with a hint of honey? • Today 12:50am (her name here) Lol, i will be having red wine...what else at 3am.? • Today 11:53am (my name here) Red wine. Well that is classy. I guess you'll have to step it up a notch. Because now i feel like...I can imagine wearing some dark dress pants with a white faint stripe running down the sided middle. A dress shirt with a greenish red stripe along the sleeves with a dark vest held tightly against me. And I guess the red wine will be on the rounded clothed table with a seat right next to me. The room is bright and the music is just perfectly wispering into our ears as we watch the show. The ballroom is just phenomenal and the dancers are just there waiting for a waltzed ride. There are stairs on bith sides of the orchestra and there you are. Right at the top, waiting for something. Something you can only get through here( according to current circumstances a ballroom dance. The crowd just stares up at you and your crystallized dress, at awe at how beautiful you look with your half a million dollar diamond necklace and earrings that gleam like the night scars. Someone walks over to the bottom of the white stairs and smiles. And looks deep inside your eyes, waiting for you to finally move. Imagine walking down the stairs with all eyes on you, towards this unique guy that you'll finally meet. As you get closer he reaches out his hand, and you remove your gloves for that first touch of our hands that will lead eachother towards a dance. The ballroom music slows down, the crowd is just around us and in a simple gesture of our awknowledgement we waltz on through the starfilled ballroom lights. And imagine the evening being just so unforgettable, peaceful and contentious with great laughter and fun... What else can we possibly add to this 3 am ballroom dance? Can you imagine just taking this person and sitting down at our table and just having all our gracious moves watched. The crowd still thinking about us and wispering at how this morning was so phenomenal for them because yes woke up at 3 am, but it was well worth their sacrifice, to have been in the prescense of 2 people with such an incredible connection that one knows the others thoughts and words before anything is ever said and done. Then imagine these two people just taking a sip of red wine to wake up early for another incredible day. (her name here) thats what else we'll have with the red wine. So can you really top that off?