ive been slowly working on a girl. she is shy. we are kinda nervous around one another at work. finally asked her out. she said yes, but then rescheduled due to jersy gas issues. she said maybe next week. she also didnt respond to my last two playful texts. i need to fall back again (ive done it before.) then continue to make her feel comfortable around me. any specific ideas for me? thanks,

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Facebook is the way forward you can comment on statuses in between messages to keep the conversation flowing without being all stalker. Just make sure your profile DHV's you.

thanks for replying, alpha lion.

I never friended her on fb. i asked her about hers, and she said she uses instgram mostly, and not facebook. I dont frequent fb that much either, so thats fine......my profile wouldnt do a whole lot to dhv me in that case.
Im realizing where im fucking up....i just get impatient, and get annoyed at a lack of communication. i honestly dont know why i keep trying to mess with young girls. older woman are so much better. haha. theres communication, and no games. i want that little hottie though. i tend to go afc, so that is what im trying to combat this time around.
i texted her yesterday for the first time since i last did, which was about four days. she responded, but then i acted too interested, and asked a question which she never responded to. then, i went afc, and said "youre an elusive little shit, you know that?" it was playful, and its the way i joke around with other girls i know and bang, but it was too reactive at this stage. ive been doing wel by just ignoring her lack of response and communication. im just curious if i can come back from this. do i ignore her completely? or, just fall bacl for a couple weeks, only saying hi to her when i see her, then reinitiate?

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She's not interested and you've probably fucked up beyond repair. Don't text her again, forget about her, and move on. Your only chance at redeeming yourself is accidentally seeing her in person and showing that you don't give a shit about her. NEXT.

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Also keep in mind that you don't want to destroy your reputation... If you come across a friend of hers, you can be sure her friend will be telling her how much of a creep you are. You don't want that do you? So save yourself.

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>>poof<< (fuck her)

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I wouldn't reinitiate it will only make you look needy and the chances are you have lost this one.
If you had her on Facebook you could of easily solved this by showing DHV with other girls.
E.G she sees that after ignoring you instead of crying about it you moved on, gamed other girls, partied it up etc. and then you would of been in a better position to reinitiate assuming she didn't first.
I have alot of girls on Facebook that I hardly speak to but every once in a while I throw out some bait and if they don't bite then I move onto another which makes them jealous. I have had crazy success this way! one chick I had been previously working on but then froze out on had just broke up with her boyfriend and she went on a liking rampage on my profile to show her interest in me.

next time get the Facebook!