This girl happened to be one of my friends ex which i did know she exist because i just moved back from other states.

Some how we ended up hanging out and she told me how bad my friend treated her and out of pity and due to i'm interested in her,i show her a lot of care and attention and even flirted a little cause of her previous relationship.

We ended up texting and hang out almost everyday and we're really close.When i don't reply her text she will keep texting and calling me.

I don't plan to make a move so soon because she seemed to like not over my friend.One day she ended up holding my hand and i thought it was nothing,the following day when we clubbed,she kissed me twice but went to the toilet to call her ex (only to find out later on in the future which i didn't know it happened during that time) and when she got home,she called me asking why i like her and would i catch her if she falls?.

I replied yes and asked would she be together with me and she said she is confused.The next day i went to accompany her for lunch i straight ask her and she said we go on a trial and i was stupid to accept that.

When were together she told her friends she see's me everyday till she wants to puke but she is the one making all the plans and she even told me she like challenges.

She even tell her friends she can't bare to kiss me behind my back while she is doing it.I soon found out from her friends and i decided to quit the relationship and she came asking me to stay friends and told me take time to get to know each other more and some how i agree to it.

Basically i turned into a yes-man.Cmon it's already been a month plus we're hanging out together.

She treated me so nice still and we're so close and in between 3 weeks i asked did her feelings developed and she replied that she likes me but still confused if there is any feelings but she keeps on showing me that she is very interested and it keeps on going till one day,she finally asked me to stop liking her anymore and her feelings towards me cant grow anymore.

She even throw all the blame on me for being emotional and even throw her anger and being rude to me after what i did to help her heal.

I am so confused why she acted this way which later on i found out from her friend due to the fact that a guy came back from overseas and she hit it off with him immediately in the club and they end up together.

I did confronted her for playing and stringing me along really well and i told her i wasn't angry because she was only 20.

Deep down inside my heart is crushed and devastated and so angry bout myself because i'm so dumb to put in all the effort and feelings for this girl because of how well she treated me from the beginning till end and only to find out it was fake.

Was she even interested in me in the first place?

When i asked her whats her decision and even towards the end,she screw me saying that she just got out from a **** up relationship as an excuse and when i bump into her with her boyfriend and i tried to be a bigger man and smile at her to pretend im cool and she gave me a cocky smirk.

The second time i bump into her i just move my eyes away as if im disappointed or disgusted.How should i act anyway?

How do i gain her interested and game her again guys?I'm taking it as a challenge to show her that i'm an Alpha.I'm an natural Alpha but as i got older i thought of being nice and sentimental because of wanting a serious relationship.

I don't really think I can help you regame this girl, she's obviously moved on and so should you, the smirk means she knows she fucked you over and is proud of it. DOn't even give this girl the time of day bro, you are better then wierd looks and horrible stares. Much better, cuter, hotter girls that DESERVE your attention. find them.
Bad move, this is the first step towards friendzone. What you should have done is avoid conversation about ex boyfriend and just made things fun, kinoed and built attractions.
Signals of a "rebound" she's rebounding onto you for attention as all the lovely boyfriend attention has gone. You are replacing this attention, she panics when you don't respond because the attention has gone away again.
She calls her ex whilst on a date with you. BAD BEHAVIOUR. I imagine what happened was that she was thinking what her ex would think. Rang him, told him where she was. He reacted in a way which was positive for her. Now she is using you to get him jealous. She also rang you, asked if you liked her and the whole catching thing because she wants to keep you in the loop incase the ex falls through.
Bad move saying yes after she displayed bad behaviour. Personally I would have gone for a "Im confused (mindfuck her before she mindfucks you), I need some sleep. Il call you, night." She'll try keep you on the phone but just state you need sleep.

Also NEVER accept trials. Your better then that.
She likes challenges but from what your telling us is that you present her with NONE. her ex however is being challenging.
Who was she kissing, was it her ex? the staying friends line is "I want to keep you in contact incase I need attention again, you are now my confirmed attention bitch.
You are now an attention bitch.
She's not interested anymore and your bugging her.
Fuck that, you should have dropped at this point. Delete her number, facebook, the lot. WHAT PUSSY IS WORTH THIS SHIT?
Another move on sign, also NEVER ask a girls friends about the girl. They will 100% tell the girl you are asking about her, her response will be "Oh for fuck sake, he's such a loser" because you are spending your time asking her friends about her. VERY AFC.
I wouldn't have bothered, bitch missed her chance. Would have dropped.
ok bro, I can understand. I've been there in the past. Couple years ago a girl at work gave serious IOI, went out with her and some friends, ended up cuddlying and making out. She even jumped on me in the street on the walk home and made out for an hour. 2 weeks I became a yes man. 1 week later I find out she's talking to her ex bf again, still kept me in the loop. 1 week later, she's back with the ex. Like you I was crushed and devastated. Basically over the summer I returned home and went back to my old job for the summer. She was still there, I got revenge on her. She gave all the IOI shit again so I gamed her a bit, flaked her, proper pissed her off. She got all lairy at me when I left "URgh, your such a playa now. I hate it, you used to be so nice"
Slightly, however as soon as you attention and care instead of being fun and interested she knew she could keep you for attention.
Classic excuse. Drop this girl man, she sounds like a fucking tool. Don't try to be friends with her, don't try to be nice to her, don't try to be angry towards her. She shouldn't matter to you anymore. She missed out on her chance with you. Yet again the cocky smirk was the "haha look at me with this guy, he's so much cooler then you"
GET THIS GIRL OUT OF YOUR HEAD!
The ONLY and I mean ONLY way you could game this girl is if her boyfriend dumps her and she comes crawling back to you for attention till then you have 100% oneitis for this girl.

GO OUT AND FUCK OTHER GIRLS. Keep yourself busy and get this girl out of your head.

She is a tool and not worth your time.

thanks bro,she put me back in reality LOL.now i dun have oneitis for her anymore.is it possible for me to initiate contact with her to re-game?

I'm not an expert but it still sounds like you have oneitis. If you didn't you'd be trying to move on and not get revenge. Anger is an emotional investment that she'll see through for what it is, you having feelings for her. As BITmixit said forget about her, initiating contact if you ever do it should be far off in the future. Doing it so soon just validates her negative feelings about you. You'll be seen as being weak and clingy. Do what ever it takes to move on and perhaps one day in the future she may come crawling to you seeking attention(again as BITmixit said) and that's when you re-game her. But you make sure your head is on straight and that she's not the only thing your working on or you'll fall back into the same routine with her.

in fact i'm trying to hide my PUA side in the beginning because i don't want to be afraid and be the nice guy for once.who knows everything backfired and she turned out to be a player lol

Run boy run! She seems kinda crazy, run while you got the chance. She also seems like she is doing most of this for attention.

Just drop her dude, serious. She is not worth it. Maybe thats why your friend dropped her, no one is worth this kind of bullshit! No one!

JUST DROP IT DUDE JUST DROP IT!
The best thing would be to show that you are so over that girl that you do not need her. FUCK THE TONS OF OTHER GIRLS OUT THERE!

Why are you still interested in a girl, that kissed you while she probably having a boyfriend, laying all the guilt on you. Just drop it!

run for the hills buddy. been there, done that. you deserve much better than this.

Actually it has already been 4 months and i kindda got over her.Should i apologize to her on blaming her?Since the beginning we have been seeing each other everyday.

Because in the end she did told me take some time to get to know each other more and i didnt realize i have been acting needy and pushy because i thought i was being played in my mind.

Maybe she wants to see me wether im an Alpha Male or not.

If i apologize for not understanding woman in the past and blaming her.Maybe she will realize i have changed?

Man I don't think your hearing what everyone here is saying. The fact that your over thinking things and considering apologizing means you've got a severe case of oneitis. Don't you see how much thought your putting into this? How are you supposed to act cool, relaxed and detached when your so obviously not? Let her come to you and in the mean time game new girls. Let things flow naturally, trying so hard is going to backfire.

Realize something else some of your attraction probably comes from your pride being hurt. If you work on our confidence with other girls your chances of re-gaming successfully greatly increase. Trust me I know how you feel, but you've got to be willing to move on. Think about it this way do you think you'd get a better deal buying a car if you act like you want it so bad you'll die if you don't get it, or by being able to walk away and do what it takes to find a dealer whose willing to work with you?