I want to create LONG LIST of Sexual Tension techniques. But before let me explain what I think sexual tension is.

Sexual tension the tension felt between two people who want to do something sexual together but hold back.

Tension; intense, suppressed suspense,anxiety, or excitement.

You know the feeling. You're standing in front of someone you just meet and you're feeling like a complete fool. Your heart is racing, your cheeks are flushed, the adrenalin is pumping and you're stuttering. You can feel the temperature rising in the room as you laugh a little "too loud" at their jokes. But you both can't deny there are sparks in the air.

From my personal experience; SEXUAL TENSION played the most important role in attraction and keeping relationship sexual.

Now having that visual in your mind, imagine how can you create SEXUAL tension between you and your target?

Women love tension. The “tighter” the tension the more excited they will get. Sometimes, to release this tension, they will laugh, giggle, or even get aggressive with you. If tension is too much and she cannot handle it, you might blow yourself out. But this is not a thread on pickup. This thread is on creating tension, not to what to do with it.

How to create it, in person, on the phone or even using text messaging.

By teasing her verbally, or using kino. And how to make it a natural progress.

I use it all the time, and interject it very early on, but there seems to be little knowledge out there on HOW!

I would like some experienced PUA’s views, input, and actual “methods” or experiences that worked for YOU!

I typically express my sexuality in a non-apologetic and brazen manner and just never back down.

That seems to work well for ME!

I was initially going to post this in the PUA Lounge, but thought it should be something every aspiring PUA should know and come to grips with. Mod’s please correct me if wrong.

Greatly looking forward to it!
Heywood

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Attraction that hasn't yet been acted upon will automatically create tension. However, there are actually techniques you can use to flirt and help build additional tension. I stare into the girl's eyes and move in for the kiss and fake them out at the last second. They are already emotionally prepared to kiss but then they get froze out. That drives them crazy!

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Exactly! that is the type of response I was looking for.
Great Ninja, thank's for getting the ball rolling!

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Stand close to her to whisper in her ear one hand on small of her back
Dont let her destroy tension by deflecting topic of conversation, or bait you into breaking it by making you reactive. If she haults your advances, 1 step back, 2 forward; never look upset, pout, or be dismissive, simply back up a notch and continue on. Can also intiate sexual tension by play fighting or say you're walking pinch her lightly on her hip, or pull her hair a bit (for some girls this can be VERY erotic) and if she engages with you in kind then continue escalating.

A lot of the time sexual tension is already there, its just a matter of not breaking it by talking too much or by making jokes/being humorous which is often a tension killer. Various forms of push/pull work extremely well for building sexual tension.

I have a golden rule.
Works magnificently.

Situation: Must have talked for a little, and must eject the scene upon receiving IOI's, and you must be able to see the person on a daily basis, or every other day or something to that extent. (THUS, this is probably something that works better in high-school or college).

Paragraph A: If you see them in the hallway...just, look into their eyes, do NOT look away, until they do, smile somewhat, do NOT change facial expressions until they do. Do not speak, until they speak to you first. Do not hug, or touch, until they try to.

...Example.
Just met a nice girl, talked for a couple mins, (While looking into her eyes at all times I said a word)...she shows IOI's...eject from the scene.

See her next day or later on in the day, do what paragraph A says. See her again later on, do the same. See her again DO it again! See her again the next day...do the SAME thing....

When she approached keep the conv. low so others around you don't hear too much...and don't say too much...she shows IOI's EJECT scene...JUST LEAVE!
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Result:...You get one girl, that WANTS TO TALK, WANTS TO TOUCH and WANTS TO FUCK. YOU DO NOT TALK MUCH...(BUT) you always look into her eyes, as if theres something in there that others don't see. You DO NOT initiate touching, she does, and you do HUG...your hands better be RIGHT ABOVE her ass (in line with where her belly button is but behind her...DO NOT GIVE A dumb hug where your hands are higher on her body that builds no tension..but right above her ass does...right before is starts to curve. You keep the conversation SHORT. And EJECT.

Do this for 3 or 4 days...and you'll notice tension is sooo BUILT that little by little SHE WILL NOT BE ABLE TO EVEN SAY 1 SINGLE WORD TO YOU...

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Has this been tested? Yea...Did it ALL THE TIME on girls in high-school...(i'm presently in college)...they would be able to talk in the beginning but after the next day or 3rd time you did this...they can't say a word...they just walk by...even RUN BY, you would block the hall to speak and they would turn around with all their friends behind them...

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THAT IS TENSION.
How do you break it??? IF YOU CANNOT EVEN GET 10 feet in front of her anymore?

EASY...
1. Walk over...(she will try to dodge you...laugh and just rush to her)
2. Grab her by her waist...now she's scared...REALLY.
3. And just kiss the girl...now your great and holy!
4. DO NOT STOP, DON'T LET IT STOP...just hold her, and keep going...and going...and going... AND don't stop until a teacher or someone says "STOP!"...because really...I've stood in the middle of a cafeteria kissing a girl for about 5-10 minutes....and EVERY single person in the room (packed cafeteria) was just watching and smiling! And giving you a thumbs up.

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I have trouble breaking tension when it gets this tense, (happened twice where the girls were just dam terrified of speaking and getting close)...and well I just did the above 3 steps...the result was a Full Blown, movie for everyone (that were casually walking, but now just staring) at how you 2 have the guts to do what you're doing in front of an audience.

Once it stops...talk to her, sit down right next to her with your hand on her lap, ask her what she felt, joke a bit on how she avoided you, but your lips still found her. And then run the eyes pattern on her, to PROVE that you had a reason to stare within her, for sooo long. IF YOU DO NOT GIVE A REASON AS TO WHY YOU ONLY STARED...(IE variation of the eyes pattern)...You BASTARD! you won't be able to progress to the 2nd rule I've come up with)...(Will post this later, in this thread).

Want tension? Your eyes, are YOUR KEY to a girl. Keep those eyes steady and locked in.

I CANNOT and will NOT take responsibility for the trouble you will get in, I will not take responsibility for the recognition you may gain...I will say though, that this has worked for me, and never failed me...

Will post 2nd golden rule that goes along with this golden rule later on.

Something I like to do is to find those moments when the sexual tension is REALLY high. Pull her towards you like YOUR about to kiss her, and then accuse her of trying to kiss you. Tell her that she’s like a little sister or something, and is acting weird. This’ll keep her in suspense.
Then use sexual innuendos like crazy. And establish a ton of physical contact. But I refuse to make any move. When she hinted about me liking her, I laugh it off and told her kissing her would be gross like kissing my sister.

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I agree with the first comment. Yourself or them going in for the kiss, but at the last minute you pull away. This does drive them wild

This is pretty interesting but don't you think you would come off as a bit awkward? And what if she pushes you away or something? Also whats the eye routine?

One of the common PUA rules is to ask "Do you want to kiss me?"

Bullshit.

I was out with a girl the other day and we sat face to face in a bar (no table between us). The entire time we were joking. Eventually, I began touching her thighs. We began leaning closer and closer. When she'd say something disrespectful (even as a joke), I'd temporarily sit back and cross my arms to voice my displeasure (half-jokingly). Eventually we'd get back to leaning close together. I took my arms and wrapped them around her, bringing my face next to hers and began whispering something in her ear (totally forgot what, but had to be worthy of whispering). Right after, started to kiss her cheek. I repeated this pattern. I tried to kiss her on the lips but she rejected me. Acted like I didn't care (and I actually didn't because she was still laughing and all giddy). Tried it one or two more times and finally she started kissing me.

Next, we bounced to her car and cuddled in her backseat. I continued to build attraction. I told her a story. She jumped all over me. Started rubbing her inner thighs up and down. Rejected my approach to her crotch. But over the course of 20 minutes, I began rubbing closer and closer again. Eventually I was lightly rubbing her crotch, then it became intense. This is while I was kissing/biting her all over. Didn't f-close, but could and would have if I didn't like her personality.

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See the link in my sig called "escalation guide." Thats how you amp up sexual tension.

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Awkward? Is it awkward that you only look into her eyes...nope. They love a guy that "has enough" that he doesn't need to be staring at her breasts or ass when she walks by. You seem unaffected by them except for 1 thing about them, and thats her eyes.

...when the tension gets soo built, they will literally turn right around in front of you if she just got out of a classroom while you were right there walking by in the hallway. You are free to stop only looking into her at any time but doing it at a point where she is devasted of screwing things up with you (when things haven't even started) works best. Sexual tension is when there is soo much action that hasn't been taken/feelings expressed and so on...so it just builds and scares her. When it builds high enough to the above mentioned, you need to just grab her hand and kiss her...they won't push you away, and if you are a bit reluctant and scared of being pushed away, EASY solution...tell her to calm down a second and ask her if you can tell her a secret, but you must wisper it into her ear...ask while you are holding both her hands, and go in to wisper in her ear and just take your lips and breath away from her ear and run it across her cheek towards her mouth. When you start to run it along her cheek right over her ear she'll wonder why and shift her head and mouth right into yours, I've tried and tested everything I'm saying here.

The wispering into their ear and brushing your lips and breath against her cheeks and such...works too in other situations...normal conv. see ioi's and then just tell her you have a secret only she can learn...and wisper "I want you despite the fact...that...we've...only...known...eachother...very...shortly".. you say I want you ...in her ear and as you say more of the phrase shift your head and mouth along her cheek , but not touching...shell shift her head and there you have a kiss within 10 minutes of meeting someone. wispers in a girls ear can lead too soo much things, wisper something and kiss her neck out of no where..shell wonder why, you tell her bc you just felt like it....or that you wanted to see how soft her skin was...then "let me check again...or oh my that is really soft.."and kiss her cheek again...just did this, this morning bf class to a girl that always helps me out with biz stats, its always best to do these whacky things in a group, it gets them to blush and feel special/heart pounding (a good thing)...and ,uch more..

have fun!

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