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PostPosted: Tue Oct 16, 2012 2:30 am 
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I bought this "Player's paradigm" from Bobby Rio for 9$ the other day, and ever since, he has been sending me a 31 days to improve game newsletter.

Now, I overcame my fear of approaching and introducing myself, but usually after I introduce myself, we end up talking and talking. We could talk for hours, but then, I usually get friendzoned. Some of my friends saying that the girl is getting too comfortable talking to me or something, but I'm confused. According to Bobby Rio, I would need to break rapport once in a while, but I didn't get what he meant by that. Can someone explain to me?


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Kino escalation, being more direct (a.k.a going for a move).

Work on these two aspects of your game and you should be fine.

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Kino escalation, being more direct (a.k.a going for a move).

Work on these two aspects of your game and you should be fine.
I went for a move by trying to kiss her, but she turned away. I could have sworn she displayed so much interest, that she would just kiss me back, but she didn't. Or was all that interest faked? And how can I be more direct? Should I just tell her "I like you" or something?


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Breaking rapport is a simple concept, but sometimes difficult to execute. Rapport is comfort and trust. Breaking rapport is simply disrupting (albeit temporarily) the comfort and trust you have established. Sometimes it can be done with a neg, but be careful with your negs. Usually it can be done by displaying disinterest or freezing out the target. However, one key thing that a lot of people don't realize is that you have to break rapport on a high note, NOT when things are going bad or after they have broken rapport with you! You're basically disqualifying her and making her think that she's no longer what you are looking for.

OP, you are tossing her the whole string too quickly. You need to yank it away first. Do more push/pull techniques.

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