so this "good girl" the kind that doesnt wear makeup and shes still a 10, we've been talking for a while and we hung out this saturday. We were going to go to a bbq together and we went to my house to make cook stuff to bring. (so i could get her back there later) any way we ended she made brownies and i made burgers. and while the brownies. when everything was done we still had some time left so i popped in a movie.

Now this is a girl that has never done anything a real christian. any way she said some thing about holding hand being awkward, so i asked her how she would hold a hand and the told her she was doing it wrong, then proceeded to show her the "right way." then we started cuddling and talking, and a one point she said " youre not allowed to kiss me" yeah i got LMR for a kiss. and i was to comfortable and or didnt think of a freeze out.

we ended up not going to the bbq instead we talked for hours and played around on my facebook liking and commenting and sending messages to random people. i guess to try to show i didnt care what people thought of me. we ended up going to see "fright night" and then i walked her home from the theater.

we got to her door and she gave me a hug
i triangle gazed
and asked " do you want to kiss me"
"no"
"wow i wasnt offering you just looked like you were thinking about some thing"

no this morning i got this message
Okay, so what happened yesterday will probably only be a one time thing. It was definitely surprisingly nice, but we have very different personalities. Sorry if it didn't go in the direction you wanted it to, but I think it'd end badly if we pursued anything more, what with my poor dating track record and aversion to all normal romantic things. There's really not much of a chance for anything more happening than what we did yesterday, and I just don't want to lead you to believe there's something greater in store if you hold out. Sorry! Hope I didn't disappoint you!

what should i do next?

It seems you fell into the friend zone my friend. If you were looking for a dear friend, I'm sure you found one. I don't see anything happening with her dude. If you're looking at just getting laid, leave gracefully and with your full value. Word of mouth does wonders

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it feels nothing like the friend zone, it feels more like maybe a reputation thing. i dont mean to sound like a bitch but this girl is so different and she really just makes me reevaluate my whole opinion of women. she is hands down the best person i have ever met. she is one of the people out there that is good enough to have a healthy relationship with, but maybe she is to good for me and i should let this one go

NAH there is attraction and comfort there bro. I just dont know if im skilled enough to close the deal.

I'm not trying to discourage u big guy, but let up. It sounds like you're getting oneitis. Get your head in the game.

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Hmm how old is this girl she sounds kinda young to me. To be honest with you I think if she's put her feelings like that I think you have two choices.

1, turn her into a friend who knows maybe she has other hot friends that she can put in a good word for you

2,Bow out gracefully.

I would go with number 1 because you seem to like this girl and it could be quite beneficial for you.

Don't get oneitis man nearly feel in that trap too recently.

this girl could be a great commodity for you

So to all the guys who said I got friend zoned... I dated this girl for a year. We had some great memories lots of fun and amazing sex. If you said that I got oneitis, you're right. In the end that is my goal, to find the best woman out there and to fall in love, and the reason I'm in the game is to not have to settle for less than perfect. We are no longer together but she taught me a lot. Needless to say right now I'm not looking for love right now I need to get those skills back that I lost over the year. If anyone is in the Miami area and wants a wingman I'm down.

Best re-post ever buddy! Nice job sticking with your gut-feeling .

How did it move forward after that text message?

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how did that work out? you don't sound bitter.

you didn't lead (to my knowledge)
she was the sexual aggressor

you think shes a 10. look bro 10's are not so you can brag to you're friends about
10's are what society thinks so we can understand the situation. 10s date the coolest most alpha dudes"if you believe in a 10" and they don't have time to fool around on facebook.
this girl may have been real nice and what most guys look for. that's cool, girls like that are hard to find

and you don't understand the idea of oneitis. oneitis makes you blind makes your game suck and makes you suck because you cant get that girl out of your head and all you can talk about is her.
i know i have had it. every pua gets it. you dont want it, you want to be in control.
but some dudes are in it for the one girl and thats cool

and when you're dating dont stop gaming. go chat up girls on the street or at work when girls force there numbers on you. you can have abundance which makes you attractive. you dont have to hit up the bars anymore- in fact i got in trouble that way before :p
and the last bit of advice is that you learned a lesson u didnt know what would happen and you thought u were done. but u fixed it and dated her for a year so you never know.