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Great first video, lots of good approach cues in there.
Here are a couple of questions, although they are only somewhat related:
Say if you did approach from some of these approach cues, then a few minutes into the interaction & you notice she's not that into you anymore and she shows you IOD's do you think it would be a good idea to try regain her attention by calling her out on what her current body language is actually telling you?
Or if she is still into you at this point I was thinking, could this also still be a good backup routine? say... if you start running out of things to talk about if your nerves get the better of you (good chance for kino?).
What do you think Vic?
Thank you for the support and appreciation Hammerofdawn, I really appreciate it.
If she lost interest you have to regain her attention. A funny line usually works, giving her shit about her body language usually works.
I personally point out a girls' body language and what it means but I also understand how every body language sign has multiple meanings so I might use one of the other signal definitions rather then the current one she is fulfilling to give her shit. So yeah, I may look over at a woman and say that is rude (careful with your tone). Look at her as you gain her attention then tell her what she is doing giving her shit.
One of the biggest reasons I love body language is because it allows me to understand people and where they are coming from. So if I talk to a girl and let her know how she is feeling right now she feels like we are connected because I understand her. I don't tell girls I know a lot about body language early in a conversation, this can make a lot of people uncomfortable in my experiences. They start doing a lot of pacifying behaviors that have more to do with my knowledge then their attraction.
How I might use body language example:
A girl crosses her arms - I look over at her and say "sheez I'm not that boring am I?" "It's not that cold, you need to stop being such a sissy." "Didn't realize this conversation was that uncomfortable, I haven't even got to my kitten drowning stories." The key is to have personality and good tone, it does take some practice but you get good at saying random shit. You are changing it up and keeping her interest.
I talked about using body language somewhere in the Body Language is the Key to Natural Game (84k hits now
) thread I wrote in the Natural section. It is a way to go direct and not get too personal but at the same time let her know you know how she is feeling. I have used it a ton of times, and honestly it is one of my favorite simple tactics because it shows you are paying attention to her, understanding her, and connecting with her.
I use it whether she is attracted or not because if you show you understand a girl she will feel a connection with you, which makes you attractive to them. Knowing how she feels about something is a powerful weapon in the world of courtship.
What is great about using body language as a conversation piece is it is as simple as a basic observation and there are always observations available. So you always have something to talk about and you never have to worry about finding something to talk about.
I'll write up a blog on using body language as a conversation piece or to re-ignite a conversation. It's pretty basic but a phenomenal tool in the courtship world.
Peace and Love,
Vic
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