ok... so i am really new to pick up.
started to do some day game and clubbing.

anyway i have two questions
1.i was at this club and started talking to this German chick (i an living in Berlin), and after some time she was all into me, chating non stop, touching my arms, i chatted a bit also (when i could), and did some kino my self... anyway we have gotten to this situation where i wanted to leave with here but she didn't want to leave her friends, i almost got here outside of the club ("to get some fresh air), but then the cashier at the entrance said we couldn't return to the club... i didn't push more and after a while i left with my friends home, taking her number (i texted her later, but she never responded)... anyway my question, if i would push a bit more or do something differently would i be able to make her "abandone" her friends (they weren't depending on her)? and i got some very strong signals that she would have gone all the way that night...

2.I picked up this girl on the street, and everything is cool, got here number and we went for a day2, i tried to continue where i stopped last time, but it seemed she wasn't interested, after like half an hour-hour she said she is sorry that she is very tired and after some tries by me to game i walked here back to here place... (i made an ultimatum in which i will "allow" here to go back if she will see one movie we talked about ,with me)... later she also said something that seemed completely like she isn't interested by saying "she feels 20 years older then me" when the age difference is only 3 years....
anyway, i then decided to pull a bit from the interaction from her and didn't talk to her for a week (no text either), now a week after she texted me like...
"how are u? how is everything going?" and emidiately after that a text with a different question on another subject (not relevant)....
so my question is... is she interested or not?

and sorry for my bed English...

1. I guess try to get the conversation to pick back up where you left off. say something like "I would've snagged you away that night, but the damn cashier (it's a bouncer though right?) was a cockblock!" that's assuming these signals were very strong like you say.
2. be like" is this that girl I took out on a date 20 years older than me?"

thanx... but those weren't my questions... my questions are:
1. What could i do differently to make "abandone" her friends that night?
(I already lost here, i just want to learn from my mistakes)

2.Is she interested or what is her deal?

1. Oh. I can't really tell you because I'm not a clubber so I have never been in that situation. However, there are ways.
2. if she texted you back like that, there's probably some interest.

thnx... any more ideas?

So an update, i have texted her back, and she started really to invest... 3 texts in a row.
But i still don't get, how to interpet the thing she said that "she feels 20 years younger then me"...?

then we continued to text and she was very investive in them....

can someone help me with this situation?

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