I've met this girl that I really like but so far I haven't tried to hit on her. I have however been chatting with her and we get on really well. She is a very very attractive girl but she is shy and innocent as well. I am afraid my regular stuff won't work as I am generally very aggressive in my approach. I share a class with her in college so I'd like to find out some ways that I can gently bring game into a conversation. Basically I want to subtly announce my intentions so that she thinks of me in that way then at night I can use my regular stuff and it won't come as a shock.

Subtlety and grace are two words that are not in my gaming vocabulary. Does anyone have any suggestions how I can do this? and in details please I'm pretty much starting from scratch here!

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Subtlety? No subtlety. Just be very touchy, and not necessarily talk about sex, but be flirty and suggestive. If she asks if you like her, you're damn straight you do.

No such thing, she already knows you like her and are flirting with her she isn't Gunna be surprised (99% of girls arnt) they are used to it and expect it
Shy girls want a guy who can take them out of that shell and let them be them, you shouldn't change for her you should let her be open to changing around you

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Hmm, I'm not sure if I believe this charbland. How am I suppose to know if she knows I like her? Is it just because I talk to her at length? I haven't assumed she likes me. Why wouldn't it be the same for her?

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Guys tend not to talk to girls unless they find them attractive. Girls tend to like attention and will chat up people they find lame.

it's likely she knows, no point in you trying to find out if she knows

if you're oblivious to her level of interest, you should flirt with her and build compliance, see how compliant she is, if you got compliance she probably likes you back people give themselves away with everything they do, body language, voice tone, language, the actions they take, and how they treat you/act around you
well that's not a good sign, are you just bad at reading body language? or just positive she doesn't like you? it's usually not that hard to tell

why wouldn't it be the same for her?, well, it's seriously just not that difficult to tell when someone is into you, why would a person of the opposite sex approach you to begin with if their interest was not sexual?, 9/10 times a guy approaching a girl has nothing to do with him just wanting to ''just start a casual conversation about nothing'' or ''be friends'' even if that is how he acts, girls are not stupid, they are very wise to this fact if they have been dating for more then a couple years, but they play dumb and friend zone those guys cause they are not willing to put in the effort to take the responsibility and often find this sort of thing boring, it's a turn off to most

bam, dead on pumpington, just beat me to it XD but 100% agree

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Okay pumpington, I am usually good enough at reading body language but as I already said this girl is shy. I usually go for the more extravagant and extroverted girls who will actually sit in my lap without a prompt.

Here are a few reasons why I think she does like me, however you could say they are quite minor. Firstly she is always glad to see me, normally with a smile and a "oh hi!" She also usually starts the conversation with me, we can talk about whatever boring shite is going on and its no problem. She laughs at all my jokes, one of which was about Irish socialism (not funny). She also hits me when I'm bold, if i come out with a dirty joke, brag, or downright insult she will smile, say "oh beast!" and hit me on the arm. She also seems to want my company, she came to find me at a house party to walk with her and a bunch of other friends back to campus apartments.

Well, that sounds quite convincing. The only thing is I'm not sure if that is just friendly behaviour. You see she is American (foreign to me). I put up a similar question 2 days ago about this and I guy told me that American girls are often much much more friendly than europeans. And what I might consider positive behavior could just be normal. Was that sound advice because it kind of knocked me on my ass!

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what is it that you like about this girl, and what has she told you about her life that you find interesting?

Well I don't want to divulge to much Pumpington you'll understand that. But suffice it too say that I do really like her, she's beautiful and she has told me a lot about her life. Why is it important?

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do you understand the concept of qualification?, if so, it's time to ''qualify her'' and ask her out

what ever the answer was to my question, you should let her know that, and let that be the justification for why you want to see her outside of school, keep the focus more on the things you like about her not related to how she looks

if she meets up with you to hang out, outside of class, then there is your sign she is interested, if she has an excuse or says yes but then cancels, then there is your sign that she is either not interested, or not available at the current time (seeing a different guy or can't date)

GOOD LUCK