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Realizing There Are Individual Differences In Women, Only Similarities

So its been a while since I've written blog post. Sorry. Its been tough getting adjusted and balancing my school, life, work, life, and relationship areas of my life. I am back and i should be posting regularly! I've also been busy doing some trainings. Shout out to my two new wings/friends. You guys are awesome. Shout out to all my wings/friends! All of you guys are awesome. Nothing but good time ahead. Those two are the newbies of the group, but their game is taking off to incredible levels already.

Okay, so your here to talk about women right? Lets do that!

Recently i came up upon an interesting subject during a psychology session with a good "friend". I don't know if you noticed this or not but eventually you can be honest and open with a girl about the journey you took to becoming "better" with women. I am at a certain point, and in fact MOST of my women I've fucked, built good relationships with know about my Day Game trainings and my journey to improving my game, and the journey I'm continuing down. Of course they need validation though, the first question they all ask is "sooo how many women have you slept with?". It's amazing they all ask the same question. haha. Now, im not suggestion just going around telling all your women you're a "PUA". NO don't do this but when the time is right it can be a good way for her to feel connected to you, like she knows a lot about you. It's mental though. Just be careful with that.

But i digress, back to the topic of this post.

In psychology there is a term called multiply determined.

Multiply Determined

Multiply Determined means human behavior is difficult to predict because most are produced by many factors. It always a good thing to keep single-variable explanations to a MINIMUM. When entering this journey i heard and read A LOT of single-variable explanations. Meaning some of the techniques slogans i heard "Sleep with every girl you meet", or "Make every girl you meet yours", even techniques were all mental, THEY WONT WORK ON EVERY GIRL. That is just the truth of the matter, and that is because women and humans in general are multiply determined. A girl you approach during Day Game in a coffee shop in most cases will be COMPLETELY different from a girl you approach at the mall for example. Why? Because both of these women have had different childhood, teenage, and life experiences so far that has molded them into who they are, uniquely. The girl in the coffee shop may be more willing to talk and open up to you because she had parents who always taught her to be optimistic about things and expect the best out of situations and people, while not being naive. While the girl at the mall may have been raised without parents and with a grandmother. So of course she will have all sorts of trust barriers to over come, and things will be different when connecting with her. You see? So when you are gaming remember multiply determined.



Knowing this small piece of information is crucial because

• You wont set your expectations to high with thinking you'll get every girl you approach.
  You wont put as much pressure on yourself if an interaction doesn't go that well.

Now, i'm not saying there aren't traits or similarities women don't share because there are. There are many. And you can certainly use these to your advantage, and most PUA material does. BUT remember multiply determined and your confidence, game, and over all interactions will go to a new level. The simple fact of being aware of this does wonders. Knowing that you can't, and won't connect the exact same way with every girl is crucial. Now there are some basic connection topics such as work, leisure, family, life experiences, etc. But the road people are going down with each is different and a unique experience. If you ever wondered why a "good" opener works on some women and may not on some, this is why! People respond differently to social interactions because multiply determined.

Comments or thoughts are welcomed!


Sluggler

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Openers are overrated.
If you do it with a smile, on a spontanious way it will work. (If you don't look horribly)
You just have to find something intresting to say against them, let them speak...

Very important to remember that women are very different. They can be as different as night and day. There are no rules that fit all women any more than all men. There are some odds you can play. But this is why it's so important not to focus on memorized lines as much as the goal. And why it is important to listen and connect with the actual person and not act like they are the same as everyone else.

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