Hey guys, I am 20 years of age, been called good looking and am a great talker with the ladies.

One thing that truly holds me back only enough for it not to happen is being a virgin.

Here is a brief intro onto why I never had sex...

When I was young, pretty much from ages 13 to 18, I never had any interest in sex. Just went on with my life and did what I did.

When I turned 19 I guess my body couldn't take it anymore and became bored with my current life style. Meaning now is the time to get out and start skill building. (Believe me there is a lot more to that Its just too long of a story to tell)

My question here to you guys,

Is, Do you think it is good or bad to be a virgin?

What values does it truly hold? (Besides the automatic ticket to heaven ;P) Im jk

I am looking forward to seeing the high valued opinions on this subject.

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"Boys make drama to feel Important

Men make Adventure because they are Important"

Christian Hudson

no std, live longer.

a woman walks into a club[50 guys] says she wants sex, all the men will look.
a man walks into the club[50 girls] says he wants sex, maybe 1..... not even? will look away.

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It is not AA that scares me or affects me anymore, its leading a conversation forward and keeping her interested. AA is nothing.

it doesn't really matter,

just don't worry about it and go find a girl that's interested, don't overthink it, if she seems like she is friendly or what ever, take her out and go for a kiss, some girls might even find it a turn on to corrupt some guy and take his v-card

GOOD LUCK

What pumpington said.

It doesnt really matter, its just a choice of life. If you are happier as a virgin it is the best choice. If you dont feel happy about it, it is the wrong one. Simple as that.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Dont be ashamed of it. I understandwhere ypu're coming from..When I was still a virgin ALL the girls I hungout with knew I was, and they knew I was a virgin by choice. When we would talk a out sex or play games like "never have I ever", I NEVER acted ashamed of being a virgin. I would admit it unapologetically, even to my male friends. From what I gathered, girls found it a turn on that I was a virgin (at the age of 21) by choice and was very confident about being a virgin as well. At one point I had a girl stay over and she begged to take my virginity (I didn't let her), she literally said "can I just have sex with you, I won't let anyone know I promise". And I turned her down. Most if the time I had girls stay the night, I would be the one that told them they couldn't have sex with me and it turned into a challenge for them. Even now I still tell them I'm a virgin even though they pretty much know for a fact that I'm not one anymore.

Also, if you want to lose your virginity I would advise you to make it a one-night stand with a random girl you don't care too much about and don't hangout with. Just my two cents.

I did not have sex until later than most, I came from a religious family, and to be honest I am glad I waited because I wouldn't have been ready at the time, yeah it would have been fun but I was not mature enough to raise a child if I had to.

The first time I had sex was when I just turned 20, it was with a family friend, she was very good looking and we always kind of had a crush on each other, it was relaxed and amazing! was not nervous at all....without sounding cliche or gay haha It was everything I thought it would be lol

Once I had sex once I had a new found confidence, sex was no longer mysterious, and since I had been studying pick up for about a year prior I would clean up at bars! I even took an hb 9 home within 15 minutes of being in the bar lol I guess you could say I made up for lost time, for about 2 years I was on the top of my game!

Sex with randoms is over rated for sure though! nothing special about it and half the time its terrible sex with a girl who is drunk. The best sex I have had is with my current gf, she know exactly what I like!

I guess I am telling you all this to let you know that there is hope and your not any out cast, in fact I know of another pua who didn't loose his v-card until 25....late bloomer I guess you could say.

My advice is find a girl you are comfortable with, have her know that you are a virgin, things will work out much better! the girl I was with loved it and thought it was "romantic" and the fact that I "chose" her made her feel special. I was also able to relax and have fun knowing that she knew.

p.s the first time you have sex you will walk with a swag in your step and a grin on your face haha you will feel pretty good about your self! lol

LMAO! Those are the greatest and most uplifting replies I have ever read in my life!

You guys really know how to make a fellow man feel great.

This Community shall live on strong and happy I can see that.

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"Boys make drama to feel Important

Men make Adventure because they are Important"

Christian Hudson