Talking to strangers, the most important thing is to treat each other as equal individuals. You have the opportunity to make demands; people also have the right to select and reject. Pestering consistently runs counter to the behavior of pickup, even if the reason is love at the first sight.

Furthermore, we also have to understand the concept of "chat" or "the skill of talk” from a different angle. The nature of the pickup and conversation should be a real performance, not "manipulating" the other. Approcher is not equal to the salesman, we can strike up a conversation to every beautiful girl we see, but there is no need to let every beautiful girl accept ourselves.

So, only if you approached 100 girls and had nothing to say, you should perhaps think about improving yourselves. Otherwise, having not much to say with most people is a normal phenomenon, or why there is fate (1 it is)?

Check out your "pickup" theory
Over the years, the internet is full of variety of pickup theory. To those Otaku (spend most time in home) who have no social experience, how to screen the theory? Here I provide a point of view: the women around you are actually the best judge - if the girls feel these methods are effective to them, in general, the methods are effective, and vice versa.
Those who are against this view might say: the woman is duplicity, their opinion is not reliable.

Please look first at the so called internationally renowned pickup artist’s inner monologue: "I want what I want, and I am not ashamed of it. When a woman said I should not stare at her breasts, I just stared harder at her breasts. I do not care how women think of me. Why do women wear tight-fitting, sexy clothes? In order not to let me see her? I see where I want to see. If she does not like this, leave me then. I am a real man, I see a beautiful woman, get hard, and that
is as it should be. It is abusing women if we do not look at women like that! - Excerpt from "D * id of X. method”.

Perhaps many men who read this, blood will boil in an instant and feel that it is what a real man should do. However, what is the woman’s reaction? If they expresse the view that they hate this kind of man, will we believe that they are not lying?

Let’s do empathy: like a woman would be proud of their breast, the same man is also confident because of rich, but will there be a man love a woman who just stares at his money? If a woman says this - "When a man let me do not stare at his money, I become staring harder at his money. I do not care how men think. Why do men buy the mansion, drive Ferraris? Isn’t it to let me see? I fxxking see what I want to see. If he does not like this, just leave. I am a real woman; I see a wealthy man. I am moist. And it is natural. It is abusing man if we do not see this way! "Perhaps as a man, we can only say to this woman one word:"Rolling!" Of course, at this moment the woman says:"Well, you just hate in your word, in fact you like me very much in your heart. "Then we collapsed ...

dude you should really work on your english))) or at least skim through what the Google translate says before posting.

However, advises in posts are very reasonable. I liked them. Good read for most rAFCs and beyond.

Thanks. My English is bad, sorry. As long as you can understand, I think it is ok.

I'm doing day game by myself and with my Chinese friend. He attended this PUA's class and find his girlfriend in the mall game. He is really great.

I got two numbers today. One is that I was approached and was asked for my number. Another one is a 4 set, I opened and chatted a bit, and then we met again in another place and one girl gave me her number.

I really miss big cities which full of beautiful girls. The Fall semester is going to begin, I hope I can make progress on campus.

Then someone may also say: Our theory is used to get Hot Baby, understand me? There are two types of women, average women and HB. They are two different animals.
We continue to empathy, next please see the "mystery women": For men, because they have always been the focus of women, so in order to pick them up, the most important tip is to neg, to suppress, to freeze, to make self as a prize, to show high value everywhere, like a leader of female.
Specifically, when walking into an upscale nightclub, even if your body and face are ugly, but you must remember smiling to everyone. Oh, do not forget using the bra pad to make breast like a hill. This method is called peacocking. Then you break into the men set, but backing the target, talking to other frustrated average men and flirting with them to cause the jealousy of the target. Then you casually turned your head and said: "Do you only have C-type smile? My ex-boyfriend is also a Fortune 500 CEO and it is really boring with his group. Ah ... of course, maybe you are the exception. It is better to leave your phone number and on another day I'll make a cube test for you. "(adapted from the known European and American pickup book "the mystery method", founder of this genre is known as specializing in picking up the high score beauty.)

Maybe some people will still wonder: after all, those theories sound very reasonable.
In social behavior, selecting evidence according to the theory is not difficult. Several sets of events which are arranged in chronological order will form the illusion of logical, but this theory only interprets the past but cannot guide future. So in a lot of psychological scientists’ eyes, the theory is often only the theorists’ personality projection. In this sense, the so called excellent pickup theory really should have market, because this is the ultimate dream of most men.

But reasonably logic is far from being feasible in real life, especially when we want to get acceptance of an equal person who has opposite sex. How can the theory most women criticized be the most effective way for picking up woman?
So, if you assume that men and women have exactly the same way of thinking, as long as we change our positions, we can immediately see the absurdity of these pickup theories. However, because of the very different way of thinking between men and women, so the fact is more important than logic in this men and women matter
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Back to the subject of this paper, as an ordinary man, we may only be able to pursue girls around our own living environment, so we need to understand some facts:
1. Women are not more stupid than men.
2. The difference between HB and ordinary women is far less than the difference between a woman and a man.
3. The theory which is invalid to women in our living environment is equal to invalid theory.

Generally, even common man will have ordinary relationships with several heterosexual friend. If you who have no social experience are at loss when facing all kinds of pickup theories, do not gulp these articles. Go and find your female friends. Relay these to them to see whether they agree with the idea of these articles. Do performances of these theories to them, and see whether they feel effective.
This is the best way to learn that let you avoid detours. This paper is no exception. Welcome to test.

"Understanding Women" and "Women cannot be understood"

Many of my articles are around the theme of "Understanding Women". At the same time, I often sigh, "women cannot be understood."
Students who got rejected often asked me: “Help me, teacher. What word I said wrongly or what thing I did wrongly make she treats me like this."
In fact, this sentence alone has been a reflection of the average men and their mode of thinking. They tend to think, in a two-person interaction, their performance is an important factor affecting the attitude of the other.

Bro this stuff is gold
Keep up the good work

interesting. thank you for translating.

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