Ok so im a handsome guy with very little experience. I dont want to sound arrogant about my looks but i know by the attention i get from girls and i have also been complimented on my looks as well. But heres the point. I dont have a way with women, which is more important than any amount of physical attraction. Confidence in general is not so much a problem, i just lose a lot of it when it comes to women i want.

There is a girl ive worked with for about a month or 2, tomorrow is her last day. She made this clear the last time we worked together, and the same day she was asking me questions about myself, trying to get to know me better. I took this as a sign of her showing interest and wanting me to ask her out/take things to the next level before she leaves. We have never hung out outside of work. That same day, she asked me how old i was and when she found out i was younger than she thought she reacted somewhat negatively, but wasn't any less friendly the rest of the night.

Basically im about 99% sure she is interested, but i cant get the balls to ask her out or figure out a way to do it smoothly. I think the fact that i waited until her last day kind of makes me look like a chump. Ive been feeling more like the man these past few days lol so that is kind of a boost. But basically im wondering how i should play this out tomorrow. I dont want her to leave without giving me her number. I really want to just say, " i like you and i want to take you out" and get her number. How does that sound? If she asks why i waited im going to tell her i dont date girls i work with, i feel good about that one. I really just want things to feel natural and smooth and not desperate. Any advice guys?

yes you can, all in your head, you can do what you think you can do, if your ego is feeding you bullshit that you can't do it, you can just kick your ego in the balls and do it anyways, asking her out merely requires words, and you obviously can speak english since you wrote this post

as for doing it smoothly, you don't need to do it smoothly, you are 99% sure she is interested, there is only a 1% chance she could say no anyways, she is already interested, you just need to do it, she will be so fucking relieved that she might get to bang the hot guy from work, you just have to get your head out of your ass and realise this is a win/win situation for the both of you, girls want to be bent over by guys they like

totally fucking your self in your own ass, stop thinking like this, who gives a fuck what you have looked like in the past, you have a chance right now to do something, not trying = auto fail
that's cause you are the fucking man, you just have to drop your ''I suck shit'' ego that you have developed for yourself, you are not who you think you are, you simply are who you are, and obviously you have not tested your limits to find out exactly who that truly is, you are sitting nice and toasty in your comfort zone


you want her number, and you know how you want to do it, fucking brilliant, you can think for yourself, this is your inner self telling you how to lead this shit like a boss, your inner self wants to pump, it's time to pump and you know what you want, ignore your ego
you even know why you want what you want, don't get to caught up in the future or trying to reach the outcome, just do what will make your time more enjoyable at the time, if you want her number, get her number, if you want to kiss her, kiss her, everytime your mind just clicks in and internally you feel motivated to do something, but that little ego kicks in and says, but what if blah blah... or but you're not good enough because..., just yell in your mind to that little fucker, just say STFU AND FUCK OFF, then do what you know internally you wanted to do anyways, no matter how much it scares the shit out of you, just one foot in front of the other until it is done, you will be ok

GOOD LUCK

so i built up a bunch of confidence and i really felt like i was ready to sack up and ask her... and she didnt show tonight. I hope she just switched shifts with someone and will work in the next couple of days, but is it a lost cause if she doesnt?

I know how to get her number without asking her for it, but i feel like that is a bit creepy and desperate. How do you guys feel about that?