So i've been in contact with this Hb9.9 for about a year - she's super hot but I played it really slow, met her only once or twice but been texting on and off at months at a time. Finally last weekend I got her out, and played my game really perfectly for the night and she ended up leaving the guys she came with and hooking up with me. (Me and my wing kept leaving them and doing our own thing, and the girl ALWAYS came back to us because we weren't giving her any attention).

Now this girl is the ultimate player, she's the kind of girl who can get any guy at the click of her fingers just to tease me, and have 7 guys following/texting her at once.

So although I did hook up with her, I want to keep this an on-going thing, i want it to happen more regularly so the question I'm asking is: how do I keep a player like this interested?

I used other girls on the night as 'props' for social proof aswell, DHVing massively that night, I had also DJ'ed at the club we met at so I had a lot of value when i Knew alot of people there. She holds me in a very high regard I know that, thats the only reason I could get her. She also mentioned after we made out that "Im the shittest texter and i take soo long to reply!!" so I know when i disregard her it generates attraction - but Im worryied about being FORGOTTEN over the sea of men trying to get with her. Every day a new AFC on facebook tries to chat her up etc...

How quickly do I advance with this girl? She's 18 im 20. How often should I text her? Do i invite her out next weekend aswell or give it a miss? I Have another girl I am texting aswell (KC'd her) HB9 really pretty so its not a case of one-itis!

But i really have no idea how to hook the girl who's also playing the field LIKE I AM!! Id appreciate your tips guys!

Cheers

PUALexander

did you f-close her or not?

No I did not. I met her for the first time in almost a year last week (only went out with her once last year almost k closed but friends mom walked in on us so never happened) and finally hooked up for the first time at this club, just last week. So things are relatively fresh at the moment..

You're at ground zero, dude. I was thinking the same thing Zepter said... if you'd fucked her that's one thing... For now, gain complaince; set the opportunity to fuck her.

You're at step 1.

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

You need to fuck her man. I've been obsessed with women since I was a tiny kid. When I was six I forced my 27 year old nanny to cuddle with me every night in her bed. She was like, "I have to sleep", I was like, "no, we're not finished yet". I'd throw a huge fit if she didn't. Hahahaha

But I've made countless mistakes. One of these is drawn out flirting and hesitation to close. This is a fucking killer! I realized HOW many opportunities I passed up on in my life because I did not escalate agressively and fast enough! This is something you learn in time. You need to either fuck her, or get on with fucking another hb.

Take advice. Learn from someone like RR, who's been in the game since before you've been born. You can avoid stupid mistakes from actually listening to what people on here are saying. You need to fuck her! 1 year of texting man and you're at step 1, I won't even get into this. You need to fuck her! No excuses.

Then you can say "we hooked up".

First of all thanks for the responses!

Second, believe me I want to bang the shit out of her, not like I'm trying to avoid it haha - but what would be the best way to go about it?

She's the kind of girl who only likes to meet at clubs and hook up, when do I know she's comfortable enough to ask her back to mine? or wherever? Only ever got laid at a party before so not good with F close, I also don't have a car but I can bring a girl back to my parents house np, they don't care ... Some tips would be much appreciated

ok, here's the thing. i wont give you the low down on the birds and the bees man, you're on your own there. you'll do just fine.

what's important to keep in mind is, less talking and more doing. stand close to her, really close. touch her all the time. not weird touching. take her wrist and ask about her nails, hold her shoulders when talking to her and look deep into her eyes. never break eye contact.

she's a party girl, go dance with her. start touching her. always be pulling her in, you're a MAN. tell her you've been studying tantric massage. she'll naturally ask you to show her. pull her in to you for a kiss. take control. then, make it more and more sexual gradually. take her by the hand, pull her out of the club and to your place. no words necessary.

you won't know if she's ready unless you do this. if she resists (and she should be resisting at least some of the time, or you're not being aggressive enough), don't worry, it's normal. just ease off a little, then keep pushing again. this should not be drawn out. like 5 min. rest, then push. repeat as long and as often as necessary.

Cheers for the tips man,

yeah it seems i'm already on track i guess because what you said pretty much defines my behavior, just never pulled her out of the club to fuck yet haha